Tuesday, May 30, 2006

The last post (Re-cap Part 2)

Well, our time on Trade Me is nearly over, so here’s one last post to finish off what I started last week…

Week 5: What to do with our new (and modest) budget surplus? Well, it was “no” to term deposit saving and “yes” to upping our mortgage payments.
tiktok said...
the extra (money) should be used to reduce debt. The cost of interest on debt is higher than that earned on deposits.
… but now that extra on our mortgage will have to wait, as your votes told us Matt should take up the opportunity to join his employer’s super scheme (matching 3% salary contribution dollar for dollar) :

irma vep said...
Go for it. If you can't afford the whole 3%, put in as much as you can for the meantime. Who else is going to offer to match your savings, and make sure you can't break into them!.

Week 6: Your votes agreed we should reflect our different money personalities by opening separate accounts. But we also followed Martin Hawes’ advice and kept our joint account for things like the mortgage.

Anonymous said...
Have a set allowance that you each receive into your separate personal accounts each week to do with as you please. My feeling is that you as a woman who is not working need to have some financial freedom too.
… then your votes favoured buying an investment property as a long-term financial goal, rather than hoping the equity in our home keeps increasing.

Week 7: It’s a complicated area, but the majority favoured the idea of us setting up a family trust. This isn’t something we’ll dive into right now, but look to establish later on - particularly if we get that investment property.
Anonymous said...
Trusts are great, as you all will be safeguarded in the long-term should you and Matt separate and divorce later on or should one or both of you die.

… and we ventured into even more controversial territory when I suggested setting up a company rather than working as a sole trader in my one-day-a-week physio job. Your votes told us to keep things the way they are.
Carla said...
… all this other talk should be wayyyy down the track...

Anonymous said...
Are you likely to have personal assets at risk by operating as a sole trader? I wouldn't have thought so. So a company is just more hassle and expense for no benefit.
Week 8: So the big question is, after two months, are we sorted now or not? Well I reckon we’re well down the track. We’ve tightened up our spending, got some extra income coming in, put some retirement savings in place and started making plans for the future.

Pretty good for a couple of months work?

I know we’ve had our lovers and our haters, but I hope the issues we’ve dealt with over the last 8 weeks have helped some of you get “sorted” with us.

Thanks all


Steph, Matt, Caleb… and the Sorted Team : )

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At Tuesday, May 30, 2006 9:47:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Quote "Steph, Matt and 3-month old Caleb are a hypothetical family living in Grey Lynn, Auckland." end Quote.

So in 2 months little Caleb never aged at all.
I note that you have kept him at 3 months old the whole way throu this experiment.

Cheers for the fun reading on this blog, for us all to check out over the last 2 months.

Im sure some have learnt from this, but I would say many already knew the important stuff as well.


See ya Steph, Matt and 5 month old Caleb.

 
At Thursday, June 01, 2006 2:44:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

No, your not "sorted" yet, that takes time, to form new habits and ensure you do not fall back into the old patterns, but you have gained some fantastic new skills that you should carry well into your future and help you all immensly. its been interesting reading, thanks!

 

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Friday, May 26, 2006

Let's re-cap...

What a crazy couple of months it’s been! Here’s a quick re-cap on what you’ve helped us achieve over the first 4 weeks, and some of your great comments that helped us along, and might help you along too!

Week 1: We paid off Matt’s credit card with our emergency savings. One debt down!
Anonymous said…
It is foolish to owe money on a credit card, which is high interest, if you have money sitting around in an emergency fund. With no emergency fund temporarily you can still rely on the credit card if something comes up. In the meantime - save on the interest!
Week 2: We decided not to extend our mortgage to buy a bigger car. Our little hatchback is still a pain (in my back!) but at least it’s still going…
vdanegerous said...
Hang on to the car you have got for a bit longer and don't spend anymore than $5,000 on another car when you have saved that much. Avoid paying interest as much as possible.

… and then your votes told us to go cold turkey on our spending…
Carla said…
Its AMAZING how much extra a week you spend on NOTHING! get a little notebook (they only cost .30c at a stationary place) and take it EVERYWHERE with you, write down EVERY purchase whether it be a $3 coffee or a $150 food shop, at the end of the week, go through your notebook and work out the amount you spent on things you really did not need, its amazing how it adds up and can all contribute towards your household.
Week 3: Matt was the loser in this one – goodbye to his $8 lunches, hello to making sandwiches in the morning. But I felt sorry for him and gave up my gym membership as well. Result? $280 saved off our budget each month!
stacey_kay said...
Not only is a budget about compromise, so is a relationship. I do not know why only one of you have got to miss out on their luxury - how about you BOTH cut something out. Yep I think Matt should start packing his lunch as $8 a day soon adds up to a few packets of nappies a week! But in saying that, you too should drop something. Maybe the gym membership (if you pay as you go and there are no costs involved in stopping) as at least with pay tv you and Matt can sit down together to watch it.

… then in some ways you could say I was the loser on the next question – back to work one day a week! But of course it had its bright side – turned our budget around from an $11,000 deficit to a modest surplus.
Anonymous said...
Definitely go for the part time work. It will keep your skills current and you won’t end like me who was a SAHM for 7 years then had to entirely retrain because I had lost all the knowledge by being at home.
Love that SAHM acronym!

Week 4: We changed our mortgage from monthly to fortnightly, paying half our previous monthly amount each fortnight. It’s going to cost us more over the year, but the result is our mortgage will be paid off a couple of years faster, saving us about $20,000 in interest.
JB said...
By repaying your mortgage fortnightly you will save heaps of money in the long run, and wipe years off your mortgage! You should aim to pay 50% of your monthly repayment (if you can manage a bit more - go 4 it).
… then your voting was pretty much 50/50 on whether I should start paying off my student loan or not. But the weight of opinion in your comments pushed me away from doing this for the moment.

Anonymous said...
I would say to pay off the interest bearing debt first and then tackle that student loan. Maybe you could put the amount that you WOULD pay on your student loan - onto the interest bearing debt. That way - once you have paid off that debt - you could transfer the payment straight to your student loan and you won't miss it! :)

Back later to review what happened over the last few weeks.

See ya!

Steph

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At Saturday, May 27, 2006 9:32:00 PM, Anonymous Marie said...

I just want to comment on the wording of the poll question. Choice between "learnt some new things" or "know it all already". Very loaded! Inference is that if I didn't learn anything new, I think I know it all already! What if I didn't learn anything new (I didn't) but I don't think I know it all? Maybe I just thought the whole exercise was patronising and so removed from my life that it was of little or no use or interest?

 

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Tuesday, May 23, 2006

Week 8, Question 1

Let’s get a few things straight. Recently we’ve been talking about issues like buying an investment property, setting up a family trust and forming a company.

Judging by your comments, some of you obviously reckon we shouldn’t be thinking about these things.

With the exception of the company (which as someone has pointed out is no big deal to set up), these have NOT been things we would necessarily plan on doing in the near future.

Now that our finances are on a reasonably even keel (thanks to the decisions you’ve helped us make!) we just wanted to take the opportunity to think about our long-term financial future and set a direction to head towards.

OK, got that off my chest.

But back over to you. Do you think we really are sorted now? Or do we still have a way to go?

Steph

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At Tuesday, May 23, 2006 2:36:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Here's a piece of advice that was given to me upon embarking on a rather risky decision.

"The only people who will tell you you can't do it are the ones who are too afraid to do it themselves".

Take some risks. It keeps life interesting.

PS. As I'm sure you have surmised by now the trademe messageboard was probably not the best place to muster opinions. They are very group think over those ways. Try zillion next time!

 

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Monday, May 22, 2006

Company vs Sole Trader

Here's the latest from Martin Hawes on whether we should set up that company or not. Looks like "not" - from his point of view at least!

Steph

At the moment I would simply stay as a sole trader. It is usually my preference for people to trade through companies (usually for tax purposes) however there is likely to be no tax saving for you because your income will be too low.

When your income increases to over $60,000 pa a company could give you some good savings. In the meantime, I would not bother about the expense.

Martin

Judging by your votes, quite a few of you agree with Martin on this one. But we'll see what the final result is tomorrow.

Bye for now.

Steph

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Friday, May 19, 2006

Week 7, Question 2

Right.

Thanks to your votes, Matt and I are going to take a serious look at setting up that family trust. Not really sure what we're in for there but we'll see how it pans out.

Another thing I'm looking into is whether we should set up a company, now I'm working one day a week. Although I'm working out of a physio clinic I'm actually self-employed - what IRD call a "sole trader" which means it's all very straightforward.

But just about everyone I talk to who is working for themselves has set up a company, so I feel I must be missing out on something here!

Your thoughts?

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At Friday, May 19, 2006 10:39:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Good gawd Steph........

You have just stopped buying lunches and going to the Gym...
so you are saving a LITTLE bit of money...

Next thing you are wanting to
buy another property to rent out.

Then you next wanted to spend heaps of money to set up a "Trust".

Now you want to spend heaps more on setting up a business...

STOP for gawds sake...
THINK about what you are doing.
You are rushing into no man's land with all this spending and will be forever in DEBT.

YOU asked us for our help to try and get you OUT of DEBT.

You aint excatly listening now are you.

But hey you are after all only fictitous (sp) aye!
So what does it matter what any of us say in this blog...

We are only in week 7:
You stopped buying Matt's lunches
You stopped the Gym memebership.
You wanted to buy a rental property.
You wanted to set up a Trust.
Now you are wanting to set up a business!!!!!!!!

You know the average person wouldnt be doing this all in less than 2 months... this is what people do over a few years.

Sheesh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 
At Friday, May 19, 2006 6:04:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Setting up a company is a better idea due to having limited liability, If your business in debt they (creditors, such as debt) cant take your personal assets (house, etc.) from you..

This would beneficial for you, since you wouldnt be left with much after you get our assets taken off you , should your business placed in debt. (if you were a sold trader or partnership you could be forced to give up your house, car , etc.)

And remember, Its good to have limited liability, becuase after all 85% of businesses go bust / bankrupt in their first year, so if you fail youre protected.

Good luck.

 
At Friday, May 19, 2006 6:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Are you likely to have personal assets at risk by operating as a sole trader? I wouldn't have thought so. So a company is just more hassle and expense for no benefit.

 
At Friday, May 19, 2006 7:49:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh I so agree Anonymous. I am getting very bored with this "oh goodness how will I cope with no income" and six weeks later you're rolling in it and setting up a Trust and a company?! Good Grief. Pull your head in Steph, you are so unreal.

 
At Saturday, May 20, 2006 12:25:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well Step,

It actually costs very little to set up a company on the companies website (~20-40 dollars I think), and once setup, maintainance is free unless there are changes - even then the amount is neglibile. This is a good way to set up a company if you are computer savvy. However, get some advise on the structure first (which may cost you depending on how well you know your solr or accountant).

If I were you I would register the company as a Loss Attributing Qualifying Company (LAQC) so that any losses that are made in the company can be used to your best advantage as they can be offset against gross taxable income. This could help you get out debt a little. For example if your LAQC company has a loss of $10,000 and your income with "source deducted tax" is 30K (and therefore tax has been deducted on the 30K basis) then your income would be reduced to $20K (30-10), meaning you would be in for a refund which can be used against debt.

The other advantage with a company registered with the companies office is the fact that it limits your liability to the amount of equity(i think) that you have in the company. So if your creditors took you to task and tried to sue you they may not get far (unless they prove negligence).

The additional costs over and above day to day running expenses involved with a company would more than likely be only the accountants fees for the end of year accounts. You could probably arrange with your accountant to "prepay" to a degree on a regular basis which would spread the load. Having a good accountant would be essential to ensure tax obligations are met.

BTW I know of a number of people who decide to do what you are doing, rental properties etc and most have purchased rental properties (ie more than one) and set up a trust and company in less than a month! Of course they had to look at the cost, but what I am saying is don't take seriously what the last "caller" has said.

 
At Saturday, May 20, 2006 10:12:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes start as a sole trader and if it works out THEN form a company. Firstly though work out a moveable business plan with heaps of back up and alternatives to try.

 
At Saturday, May 20, 2006 3:22:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

I agree with Anonymous....

i thought it would be a great website to help you and others get out of debt, but all this other talk should be wayyyy down the track

i dont get it, sorry.

 

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Thursday, May 18, 2006

A matter of trust

Hi all

Well the family trust looks like being a definite possibility, judging by your votes and comments so far. But here are some words of caution from Martin Hawes:

Steph

I cannot think why you would go to the expense of a trust. There would be no tax savings that I could see, you do not need the asset protection, there are no relationship property issues and you are a long way from needing rest homes!

The expense and time cost of a trust would seem to me to be a waste of time and money.

Martin

Good to get another perspective on this. More views and votes welcome!

Steph

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Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Week 7, Question 1

Ok so it's not the easiest time to add a blog post today. Now I'm working a day a week it does upset the flow I'd had with Caleb a bit. But I'm really loving having just a wee bit of space to myself.

Anyhow, nevermind that, it's back to money matters. Trusts is where we're at now. With the last vote saying we should buy an investment property we need to start thinking beyond our next pay cheque.

Matt's sister and her husband have just set up a family trust. They're pretty switched on and have got two flats which they're gradually doing up. They're rented out at the moment and they've also set up a company to manage them. So with our latest plan of attack changing - we're thinking about setting one up too.

The Trusts section on Sorted had a really good run down of the pros and cons so we've got a feeling about what we want to do, but as is the way, we'll go with your vote...

Steph

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At Tuesday, May 16, 2006 2:35:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Family trusts are a good way to go in my opinion. It covers a lot and gives your family some security (if managed correctly) later on in life. It does take a bit of setting up, and unfortunately legal fees are the killer.

 
At Wednesday, May 17, 2006 6:18:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Find out first of all, the final costings to setting up a "Trust" as they are expensive.

They also have annual fees that have to be paid as well.

Once you find out the final cost, then decide can you really afford it at this moment in time.... or will it better to set it up and a few months time when you have the money to pay it in CASH.

Trusts are great, as you all will be safeguarded in the longterm should you and Matt separate and divorce later on or should one or both of you die.

Set up the trust so that 'all' children you will have, are then secure money wise years down the track.

 

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Friday, May 12, 2006

Week 6, Question 2

Following on from the eye-opening look at our money personalities the other day, Matt and I have been talking about our financial goals. Shock horror!

Now Matt’s signed up for his employer’s retirement savings scheme we’re actually thinking further ahead than next week for a change.

On Sorted it says one of our goals should be to increase our net worth over time.

Well, house prices seem to keep rising and as our mortgage gets paid we’ll have more and more equity. So that’s one way.

But another idea might be to leverage off the equity in our house and buy another property as an investment (no, not right now, we’re talking long-term!).

You always hear about people doing this – why not us?

Oh – thanks for all your votes on the bank account question. We’re going to open separate accounts for each of us, but also follow Martin Hawes’ advice and keep our joint account for things like the mortgage.

Steph

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At Friday, May 12, 2006 11:23:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why not do it now? No time like the present.

 
At Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:21:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

have to agree with poster one, no time like the present, with the doomsayers trying to burst the bubble you may as well ride the wave now. many property investor professionals say you need 5 to make a living so starting early definatley helps. with the right planning you should be able to achieve your 5 properties within a 3 year period.

 
At Sunday, May 14, 2006 3:12:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I assume you still don't have much left over money at the moment. Also at the moment you are unlikely to get much capital gain on a residential property over the next few years and currently rentals are unlikely to be paying for themselves. You will need to put money in to make up the difference between the rent and the mortgage. Therefore I don't see that you are in a position to get an investment property at the moment. But it could well be something to consider in the longer term.

 
At Monday, May 15, 2006 11:17:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Like hello, aren't you supposed to be broke and tr... Like hello, aren't you supposed to be broke and trying to sort out the financial mess that you are in... and now you want to buy another property!!!!!!!!

Like get with the programm here... get your #*&! sorted out first.. then maybe in a year or two when you are no longer in a financial mess, then maybe do it then...

Sheesh, you have only just given up on Matt buying lunches everyday whilst he is at work... you have given up the Gym subscription... you have only just starting to get you act sorted out... NOW is not the time to do this foolish thing.

You dont have enough to pay for all the extra things required being a landlord... the new flat may need to be repaired.. tenants not paying up or smashing the house up.. if that happens how will you pay the extra mortgage????

Your extra wages from you working part-time or Matt working extra hours in the weekend wont cover the extra mortgage if things turn to shite with your tenants...

So a simple answer is NO.

 

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Tuesday, May 09, 2006

Pots of money?

Hi guys

Here's an interesting spin from Martin Hawes on that joint vs separate bank accounts issue:

Steph

This is a really hard one - it depends on a lot of personal issues. Separate bank accounts can make money management more difficult and there is also the issue of what happens when one of you runs out of money!! This can mean that things like the mortgage cannot be paid.

One thing that you could think about is having three pots - i.e. his, yours and ours. This would mean that you would pay joint expenses (like mortgage and groceries etc) out of one account but you would each have a separate account for your own personal stuff (clothes etc).

You still have the problem of what happens when one of you is broke, but at least you both know that the important stuff will be paid. It also means that one is protected from the profligate ways of the other. A lot of people use three pots because it maintains a sense of togetherness and partnership, while still giving some independence and protection.

Martin
Some good advice there - didn't really think about doing both. Interesting thought!

Keep those votes and comments coming.

Steph

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Week 6, Question 1

I’m a Money Surgeon and Matt’s a Money Maestro!

Well, that’s what the money personality profiler on Sorted said anyway.

I like “order, stability, clear systems and being in charge”, while dear Matt likes the good things in life and is prone to “bursts of extravagant expenditure”.

Couldn’t have put it better myself!

I’ve often thought that we had very different ideas about money and this just confirms it.

We’ve had a joint account since we got married. Which has led to a few arguments over the years about where our money’s going.

But now I’m wondering if we should have our own accounts again – maybe with some “pocket money” for each of us to do with what we want. So I can buy my magazines and make-up without feeling guilty. And Matt can buy the odd CD or nice bottle of wine.

Worth a try? What do the rest of you do with your finances?

Steph

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At Tuesday, May 09, 2006 11:27:00 AM, Anonymous tiktok said...

Will there be any bank fees on these separate accounts?

If yes, then I would say no as from your last budget figures you had less than $15 surplus per week between the both of you.

At the end of the day Matt has to learn to manage money better so whether this can be achieved by a separate account or restrictions or other methods is really up to you both...

 
At Tuesday, May 09, 2006 12:15:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Have a set allowance that you each recive into your seperate personal accounts each week to do with as you please. My feeling is that you as a woman who is not working need to have some financial freedom too. Personally, I would be setting half of my pocket money away in the event that the relationship goes belly up. You are in a vulnerable position as a non working mother. Just my opinion.

 
At Tuesday, May 09, 2006 5:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If their personalities are that different then they should get a divorce.

 
At Thursday, May 11, 2006 6:51:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why not just let the controller personality control the finances? Works for me. My partner never even looks at our account but he enjoys hearing about my Trademe profits.

 

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Friday, May 05, 2006

Golden opportunity?

Hi all

Here's a short and sweet comment from Martin Hawes, on whether we should take up Matt's opportunity to join the workplace savings scheme.

Steph
This is the breakthrough you have been wanting – a great chance to get ahead. Think about the opportunity: someone is prepared to give you a dollar for every dollar that you invest. That is a good deal!

You have to find a way to do it. Employer-subsidised Super Schemes are one of the exceptions to that rule of paying off your mortgage before you start to invest. Do not turn down an opportunity like this.

Martin

Couldn't be much clearer, could it? I'm feeling quite enthusiastic about this now!

Steph

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At Saturday, May 06, 2006 11:45:00 AM, Anonymous irma vep said...

I have a workplace super scheme, where our contributions are matched 150%, up to 5% of our salary. After 2 years, we become eligible to receive 20% of their contribution (ie equivalent to 30% interest!) as well on resignation, with an extra 10% per year going up to 100% after 10 years.
I have just resigned from my job after nearly 5 years in the scheme, and am getting paid out. Let me just say, that it has definately been worth my while being in the scheme. Go for it. If you can't afford the whole 3%, put in as much as you can for the meantime. Who else is going to offer to match your savings, and make sure you can't break into them!

 

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Week 5, Question 2

So it’s “no” to term deposit saving and “yes” to upping our mortgage payments.

Your votes made the decision clear on this one but thanks also to the helpful feedback from Martin, tiktok and JB.

However, Matt’s employer has just thrown a spanner in the works (potentially a nice spanner, though!). He’s starting up a workplace savings scheme and has offered everyone a place in it. The deal is Matt can contribute up to 3% of his gross pay each month and Matt’s employer will match it dollar for dollar.

So that would take care of our surplus (around $2,000), but could be a better option than putting it into a term deposit or even the mortgage? Or maybe this just isn’t the right time for us to be looking at retirement saving?

Martin Hawes will give us his view later this afternoon.

What do you think?

Steph

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At Friday, May 05, 2006 3:52:00 PM, Anonymous tiktok said...

Normally I would say go with the savings scheme as basically your earning more on any contributions made (compared to a reduction in interest if you applied that budget surplus to your mortgage)...

However, what are the terms of the scheme?

Is the money invested and hence you're exposed to high(er) risk (i.e. potentially, could you get negative returns with the scheme)?

How long must you be in the scheme before you can withdraw money?

Can you elect to not make payments just in case an emergency crops up?

As your surplus is so low, less than $15 per week, I'm a bit hesitant to say go for it without knowing more information about the scheme...

 

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Wednesday, May 03, 2006

Budget update etc.

Hi everyone

In response to tiktok’s comment we’ve put up some screenshots of the revised budget we worked through on Sorted’s Budget Calculator. More income and less spending!

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But is there room for some saving? Here’s Martin Hawes’ view:

Steph

Having money in the bank while you have a mortgage is a really bad arrangement. In effect, you are lending the bank your money (the term deposit), the bank puts a profit margin on and then lends the money back to you.

The result is that while you’re paying 9% interest on your mortgage, the bank only pays you 7% on your term Deposit. Then, of course, the IRD takes its share of the interest you are being paid and so you end up getting around 5.5%. That is not a good deal.

You are much better using any spare money that you have paying off the mortgage. To be better off you would have to get over 9% after tax from an investment – that’s not easy and would certainly mean taking some risk.

There are some exceptions, but most people are better to clear the mortgage before they start to invest.

Martin


Oh well, doesn’t look like such a smart plan at this stage after all. But let’s see where your votes take us.


Steph

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At Thursday, May 04, 2006 9:49:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

$180 a week for groceries? Wow that is heaps, i only spend $130 a week and that is 2 adults and a newborn - who uses heaps of nappys and formula. I think you could make a slight cut back there, food prices are supposed to be cheaper in Auckland.

 

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Tuesday, May 02, 2006

Week 5, Question 1

Phew, that was close! Your voting was pretty much 50/50 all the way on whether I should start paying off my student loan or not. But the weight of opinion in your comments has pushed me away from doing this, for the time-being anyway.

We’ve done some more work on our budget. After keeping track of our actual spending in the last month, we realised we'd over-estimated some of our expenses like baby clothes for Caleb (we've managed with the bagloads of hand-me-downs from his cousins so far!), and luxuries like wine and takeaways. We've also decided not to spend any money buying new appliances this year - that new dryer will have to wait.

The result is that our budget calculations on Sorted now show a projected surplus of around $2,000.

So the next question is, what should we do with it? One idea we’ve had is to get into the “saving habit” again and put away $50 each fortnight from my pay.

Then at the end of the year, along with the $700 left from our emergency fund, we’d have $2000 to put into a term deposit and start earning some interest for a change. The other option of course is to put the same amount of money onto our new fortnightly mortgage repayments.

So it all boils down to whether we should start saving a little now or pay more off our debt … what dya reckon?

Steph

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At Tuesday, May 02, 2006 11:19:00 AM, Anonymous tiktok said...

Please post your new budget so we can see figures...

Also, the extra should be used to reduce debt. The cost of interest on debt is higher than that earned on deposits.

By all means build up your emergency fund but after that put it all towards debt (car repayments first then the mortgage).

The only time it makes sence to save, as opposed to reducing debt, is when you can earn more from the savings. Matt might have a Super Scheme with his firm that matches dollar for dollar (?) - in that case you should run the figures on returns etc to calculate the best option for your surplus.

 
At Tuesday, May 02, 2006 8:46:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

Put that money on your mortgage

By putting that extra $50 on your mortgage a fortnight, you would save yourselves truckloads on interest (and years off your mortgage - in the long run...)

You should also be able to redraw these funds (depending on what type of mortgage facility you have) - so also acting as a buffer for unforeseen circumstances.

Check with your bank first to ensure you would not be penalised for paying too much in excess of your minimum payment.

BUT...

If you would like the comfort of having money in a savings account, look out for a 'on-call' account which attracts competitive interest rates to term deposits (you should find something for about 7.40% with no account fees). That way you start earning decent interest from day one with the ability to add to it fortnightly and draw it out whenever.

Bit trickier this question, as my head says one thing and my heart says another.

 

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Friday, April 28, 2006

Too close to call?

Hi all

Good to see the student loan question has got you thinking. And judging by the votes so far this one could go either way…

Pay it or forget it? Here’s what our friend Martin Hawes has to say:

Steph,

My advice on this is simple: forget the student loan at the moment. The recent Government changes that mean there is no interest payable allow you to sit on it at no cost. One day you will have to pay it off – when your income rises. But in the meantime, I suggest that you do not need to worry about it.

Martin

Keep those votes and comments coming, everyone, we’ll see how things turn out next week.

Steph

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Week 4, Question 2

Well, thanks to your votes we’re asking the bank to change our mortgage payments to fortnightly. That’s also what my new pay frequency will be, so makes sense.

Following your feedback, we’ll be paying half our current monthly amount each fortnight. It’s going to cost us more over the year, but we’ll have to find a way to make it work. More on that later.

And on the subject of debt, have I mentioned my $13,000 student loan? Probably not, as I haven’t had to make any repayments since I stopped work.

But now I’m earning again I wonder if I should start paying it off – even though I will be under the repayment threshold ($17,160).

Getting rid of debt is our number one goal, and now there’s no interest adding up, the student loan should be easy to knock on the head – well, easier than our mortgage anyway.

Just a bit each month wouldn’t hurt? Worth it?

Steph

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At Friday, April 28, 2006 11:08:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

student loans are now interest free, so I would recommend paying it off only when required to. Use your money to pay off interest-bearing debts instead!

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 12:08:00 PM, Anonymous tiktok said...

If your student loan has no interest charge at the moment then I would put my money on other debt. So pay off high interest debt first (credit cards, car loans, mortgage etc).

In the long run, you will be better off doing it this way.

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 1:31:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hmm this is a tricky one. Part of me says this is only a temporary thing. A snap election could happen and guess what, all that interest will go back on. I also feel that it is your responsibility to pay it back as quickly as possible if you can. It is a loan that was designed to help you. I think too many NZers have the attitude of bite the hand that feeds. The best debt is no debt. Doesn't it weigh you down each and every day knowing you have that loan attached to you like a dead weight? Personally I would be paying that debt off asap, although financially it makes sense for you not to. I guess its your call really.

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 1:53:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

You'd be crazy to pay off your student loan now it is interest free...if you really want to do something about it, put some money aside to pay it off if/when the government changes and interest goes back on it. Until then, you can earn interest on that money.

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 3:45:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

haha! looks like 50% of us are crazy then! 50% of us would start paying it back now.

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 3:46:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you die, who has to pay your student loan? Your next of kin? what a wonderful legacy to leave your family. NOT!

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 4:03:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

FYI If you do die with a student loan the loan is completely written off, so you have nothing to worry about on that front

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 4:13:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Actually Student loan debt is written off if the borrower dies, it never gets transfered to anyone else

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 4:16:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

Given the tight financial situation you are in, I'd be inclined to leave it for now, seeing student loans are now interest free. Once you resume full time employment, I am sure you will be in a much better postion to repay much larger chunks comfortably.

However, if you feel you can - do it. (or put that money onto your mortgage!)

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 4:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi there, I would say to pay off the interest bearing debt first and then tackle that student loan. Maybe you could put the amount that you WOULD pay on your student loan - onto the interest bearing debt. That way - once you have paid off that debt - you could transfer the payment straight to your student loan and you won't miss it! :)

 

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Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Fortnightly vs monthly

The voting so far would suggest this issue is very clear cut, but maybe not...

Here's the Martin Hawes angle on fortnightly vs monthly mortgage repayments:

Steph

This question is not as straight forward as it sounds - there is a lot of
misunderstanding about it.

Fortnightly payments are good for many people because they end up paying a lot more on their mortgage than they were paying before. There is a great saving, but only because they are putting more money against the mortgage. If they pay the same amount of money as they had been, but pay fortnightly, there is only a very minor saving.

Here's what I mean: You're currently paying around $2050 per month. If you decided to pay fortnightly, you might choose to pay $1025 per fortnight. You would in this case make a great saving because you are paying a lot more on the mortgage – as there are more than 24 fortnights each year. When you pay $2050 per month, you are paying $24,600 per annum. But if you pay $1025 per fortnight you are paying $26,650 per annum. That extra $2,050 per annum that you are paying does indeed lead to greater savings, but only because you are paying more.

If you changed to fortnightly payments but still paid the same amount (i.e. your $2050 per month went to $946 per fortnight) you would only have a very small saving over the life of the mortgage - around $225.

So, start to pay fortnightly by all means, and if you pay half of the previous monthly payment, you will make a great saving. However, it could blow the budget - and your budget is already fairly tight.

Martin

Mmmm, not so black and white after all! How has it worked for others out there?

Steph

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At Tuesday, April 25, 2006 1:35:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think fornightly payments are better if you keep the payments at half.

Yes your budget is tight but in the long run you will be better off especially with the (lunch) savings made recently.

I'm not sure how frequently Matt is being paid (monthly or fortnightly?) but this may have a bearing on whether it's easier for you to pay fortnightly - there is no temptation to spend money you don't have.

You can find another mortgage calculator here to see how differing repayment amounts and periods affect your mortgage:
http://www.macro-x.co.nz/example_5.htm
or
http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/templates/CT011815531033.aspx

 

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Monday, April 24, 2006

Week 4, Question 1

Hi ho, hi ho, it’s off to work I go...

Well, not just yet but that’s what your votes have told us should happen.

Matt’s pleased he can keep his weekends off and to be honest I am looking forward to keeping my hand in at work. We’re both a bit apprehensive about putting Caleb into child care. But it’s only for one day a week, and the money will make a big difference.

In fact, with the savings we’ve made over the last few weeks through getting rid of Matt’s credit card debt, his bought lunches, my gym membership, and now the prospect of extra, regular income, things are definitely looking up.

Still a way to go, but we’re now well on our way to getting things sorted.

So next on the agenda (has it ever been off it?) is the mortgage. We’re still mulling over whether to go to a broker or just talk to our bank, but whichever way we go, one thing we’re going to have to decide is whether to change the frequency of our payments.

Matt gets paid monthly, so we thought it made sense to have monthly payments. But it seems everyone these days pays their mortgage fortnightly, so maybe that’s the way we should go? And if we do pay fortnightly, should it just be half of what we pay each month? Or less? Or more?

Steph

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At Monday, April 24, 2006 3:01:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

Pay your mortgage fortnightly

I have said it in a previous post, by repaying your mortgage fortnightly you will save heaps of money in the long run, and wipe years off your mortgage!

You should aim to pay 50% of your monthly repayment (if you can manage a bit more - go 4 it).

An mathematical example
…of how much more you will repay a year paying fortnightly, over paying monthly, using 8%pa, 30 year term, $211K mortgage:

Monthly repayment of $1,548.24 (approx) x 12 repayments = $18,578.88

Fortnightly repayment of $774.12 (approx) x 26 repayments = $20,127.12


The difference being one mortgage repayment! (without any effort at all really!).

Your minimum fortnightly repayment should be the monthly repayment divided by 26, making it $714.27, so by paying 50% your monthly repayment, you are effectively paying an extra $59.85 each fortnight, which, at the end of the day will wipe approximately 7 years off your mortgage (& save you approximately $97,600 in interest!!).

However, in saying that, most people refinance their mortgages every 5 years or so, and top up, withdraw their redraw (funds that have been overpaid), extend their mortgages and not to mention the fluctuating interest rates– so although the figures look really good when you look at how much you save in interest costs, in this mock example, most people don’t really save that much in the long run by paying fortnightly.

Up to you, I say change to fortnightly repayments if you can handle it!

Again, speak to your bank (or broker), who could explain this further.

 
At Monday, April 24, 2006 3:30:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If he gets paid monthly then the "easiest" option is to have your mortgage paid monthly straight out of his wages so you don't have to worry about overspending & not having the mortgage money. Why make life hard for yourself??
And see a broker about your mortgage. It is their profession to get the very best deal and they can look at all the different bank options to suit your needs.

 
At Monday, April 24, 2006 6:36:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Paying fortnightly helps reduce your mortgage but only if you divide the monthly payment in half and then pay this fortnightly. This way you are paying the same as 13 monthly payments a year instead of 12 as there are 26 fortnights in a year not 24. You hardly notice the difference in your budget but it reduces the interest you pay, especially on a large mortgage. Good luck.

 
At Monday, April 24, 2006 6:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Paying fortnightly helps reduce your mortgage but only if you divide the monthly payment in half and then pay this fortnightly. This way you are paying the same as 13 monthly payments a year instead of 12 as there are 26 fortnights in a year not 24. You hardly notice the difference in your budget but it reduces the interest you pay, especially on a large mortgage. Good luck.

 
At Wednesday, April 26, 2006 9:17:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Not sure where martin hawes gets his figures, from, but i wouldn't trust his advice as far as i could spit anyway, but making more regular payments on your mortgage, your going to save more than $255, ideally you want to talk to your bank about paying weekly, the faster you pay those interest bits the quicker it will drop. did you know you pay mainly interest on your loan for the first 8 years, and a std 100k mortgage will atrract nearly 3 time the interest, over a 25 year span.

 

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Friday, April 21, 2006

Freelance vs Physio

Hi all

Just got these wise words from Martin Hawes about the extra work question:

Steph

Thank goodness Matt got rid of those bought lunches. Think of it this way: $8 per day is $40 per week, $168 per month, or around $2,000 each year. If you saved that money at 5% interest, in 30 years you would have almost $133,000 - see for yourself using Sorted’s regular savings calculator. Expensive lunches! (You would be even better off if you applied that $168 per month to additional mortgage payments.)

When I think about whether Matt should freelance or whether you should take on part-time work, it’s a more difficult question. Financially, you would be better off having Matt doing some freelance work. By the time that you have paid childcare and transport costs, there will be more money from Matt’s work than yours. Especially since his hourly rate is higher.

However, there is another really important factor: being out of the workforce means that you risk losing your employability. This affects a lot of people – especially women. A few years out of the work force leads to a loss of your network, and a loss of your currency within your profession. It can be very hard to get these things back when you need to. Lots of women, in particular, find that when something bad happens (death or illness of their partner or marriage breakup) that it is hard to get back into their professions and they no longer have the ability to earn a good income.

I know that you will be better off in the short-term if Matt starts freelancing. However, in the longer term I think that you would be better advised to get yourself back in the game by doing some part-time work. Doing this means that you will have a bit more income to help your budget. You will also maintain your professional currency, important if you are struck by one of the Three Ds (Death, Divorce or other Disaster).

And when Caleb gets bigger and you can go full-time, you will be able to earn more than Matt would ever earn freelancing.


Martin


Thanks again Martin, some strong arguments there. But I'll keep an open mind until the voting finishes on Monday.

Have a great weekend everyone!

Steph

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At Friday, April 21, 2006 8:59:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Rubbish - re the out of the workforce. Why not find something that you are good at and do it from home! No reason why you can't work from home and have the best of both worlds, be there for your child and earn extra income!

 
At Friday, April 21, 2006 9:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

are you getting your working for families handout?

 
At Monday, April 24, 2006 11:16:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

To above poster who says its rubbish re being out of the work force. Are you an employer??? I am - and I can confirm for you that it is a strong disadvantage to have been out of the workforce. A s.a.h.m who has been out of the workforce for some time is not an attractive employment prospect. A lot changes in the workplace in 5 years and I'm afraid you would struggle to keep up. PS. I am a mother also.

 
At Monday, April 24, 2006 12:12:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

They don't qualify for working for families. Their income is $68k. May I take this opportunity to say that all my life I have been a Labour supporter, however I am disgusted with the working for families scheme and will place my vote firmly with National in future. I venture to suggest most Aucklanders who are on higher than national average incomes but also have higher than national average expenditure, will be doing the same. Why am I paying for anyone south of the bombays to breed?

 
At Wednesday, April 26, 2006 8:01:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I find it entirely rubbish re the if you are out of the workforce you struggle to keep up. Give me a break! As long as you have a skilled trade such as Physio or something similar to go back to there is no reason to return to an "employer". You can work for yourself from home. I do, I'm a stay at home mum with my own business doing very well and it works for a lot of stay at home mums who don't want Day care to raise their kids!

 
At Wednesday, April 26, 2006 11:58:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thats fine as long as you only intend to be self employed in future. If you ever do wish to get back into the workforce, hmmm, well. Its already been said.

 

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Week 3, Question 2

Poor Matt. No more bought lunches.

Now I do feel a bit sorry for him (truly!) so in solidarity I’ve decided to cancel my gym membership as well.

So together we’ll have shaved about $280 a month off our budget. And no doubt we’ll find some other ways to save thanks to all your great suggestions.

The last message from Martin Hawes really got us thinking though – that budgeting isn’t just about cutting spending but also looking at opportunities for increasing income.

So we’ve also come up with a couple of ways we can earn a bit extra to get us out of the red.

Matt thinks he can pick up the odd bit of freelance graphic design work to do on the weekends. Maybe 5 hours a week (around $200 after tax) – but the downside is he’d have less time to spend with Caleb (and me of course!)

The other option is me doing some locum physio work for one day a week.

Working 8 hours I’d probably earn about the same as Matt’s freelancing – and we’d have to pay for child care - but it would be regular income we could bank on.

What does everyone think?


Steph

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At Friday, April 21, 2006 9:42:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should go back to work 1 day a week. Being at home 24/7 does your head in, especially with a screaming baby. You need a break from the mundane too. Also it keeps you in the work force which is important. Some may deny that it will affect your ability for reemployment but in all seriousness it is a disadvantage to be out of the work force for extended periods of time. Matt could also pick up some freelance work but perhaps schedule it for every second weekend so that you all get at least one weekend together. I can't think of anything worse than being stuck at home with a screaming baby 7 days a week. Do yourself a favour. :o)

 
At Friday, April 21, 2006 12:16:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello again, go for the locum option as Matt will need his weekends. It will give you time out and will give you some openings when you decide to go back to work full-time.

 
At Friday, April 21, 2006 3:22:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree that you should go back to work one day a week. As a previous poster said it keeps your skills current and gives you some time out from being "mum" 24/7. Perhaps Matt could look at doing freelance work too though (maybe every second or third weekend) and with both lots of extra income coming in you'll be out of the red quicker.

 
At Friday, April 21, 2006 4:44:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

definetly go for the part time work. It will keep your skills current and you wont end like me who was a SAHM for 7 years then had to entirely retrain because I had lost all the knowledge by being at home.

 
At Saturday, April 22, 2006 8:01:00 AM, Anonymous C.T> said...

i agree that working one day a week will be good for you & help you, by maintaining proffesional contacts & skills. howevver, is there any way you could be seeing patients from home? maybe by setting up a spare room ( or even rearranging the home environment, slightly) to provide a consulting room. you could then investigate the option of hiring a varsity student to look after baby, cheaper than a child care centre.

 
At Saturday, April 22, 2006 9:18:00 AM, Blogger Jayne said...

I too think you should go back to work for 1 day a week. Keep your weekends free for family time. Do you have a friend or relative that might be happy to care for Caleb? That could save you a little money because paying them would be cheaper than other childcare options - even if they could take him once a month.

 
At Saturday, April 22, 2006 3:02:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes YOU could go back to work part-time.

But FIRST find out the cost of childcare for one day a week.. it will be VERY expensive for that one day. Plus it may be very hard to find a child care place that will take a child one day a week.

So work out the cost of your wages to what you would be paying out for a child care centre. Will it be worth it for a few dollars a week?

I assume that the part-time job will be 9am to 5pm. So that will give you time to get him there and then pick him up again at night.
Now some places charge more cos they give the kiddies a hot meal at lunch time.

Unless you can call on a friend or family member to look after him all day at maybe a cheaper rate. But they must be reliable.

Working part-time will get you back into the work force and it will keep you also up to date on the latest things happening in physio-therapy techniques.

If Matt wants to work a few extra hours in the weekend then thats his choice... he could work in the evenings for a couple of hours, so that he spend time with you all during the day to have quality family time together.

 
At Sunday, April 23, 2006 11:01:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

All of these posters worrying about your virtual skills in the future and getting out of the house and this and that, probbably have no idea how to budget either. Logic seems lost aswell. The point of this is to reduce debt and get back to positive territory when your there - thats when you start worrying about other things. Why in the world would you want to send the mother out to work incuring further cost (tax, transport, childcare etc etc) She can only earn $200 a day (8 hours which would mean giving away half to costs meanwhile the father can earn more in a shorter time (5 hours) with less costs. Every choice so far they really should have bit the bullet and done both but since they are not commited enough to have bought from home lunches, no gym and no sky and you can only pick one (not that its particulary real life) in this case the choice should be where the $$ are.

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 9:39:00 PM, Blogger SB said...

I think you should definitely go back to work also. As far as childcare goes.... you would most certainly qualify for a childcare subsidy and you would be able to find care for 1 day thru a place like Kidstart. They do home based care and there are plenty of caregivers that take part time kids. Even for a day!!!

 
At Friday, April 28, 2006 9:42:00 PM, Blogger SB said...

I think you should go back to work also. As far as childcare goes.... you would most certainly qualify for a childcare subsidy and you would be able to find care for 1 day thru a place like Kidstart. They do home based care and there are plenty of caregivers that take part time kids. Even for 1 day!!!
Would give you a break and be in the 'adult' world plus your child gets to experience something different.

 

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Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Week 3, Question 1

Thanks to everyone who voted and commented on our last question – going cold turkey on our spending was another clear winner. Martin Hawes has given us some tips about how we should go forward with our budget which I’ve included below.

This week's question should get some good discussion going - it certainly has in our house!

Matt and I have been debating which “luxury” to ditch first. Top of mind were the lunches Matt buys each day vs my gym membership and Pay TV subscription. Not sure how I ended up having two items on the table but there you go. Come on girls, stick up for me here!

Anyway, here’s what Martin has to say about budgeting:

Matt and Steph,

A budget is not all about scrimping and saving. It is deciding what you want to spend your money on, doing the things that give you good value and life enjoyment and not doing the things which don’t. (Your gym membership might fit into the first category but Pay TV???)

When you take another look at your budget on Sorted, you should keep a few things in mind:
  1. A budget has two sides: income and expenditure. A dollar of extra income is as good as a dollar cut from expenditure. Is there any work that you can do, Steph? Matt’s income is good, but can he improve it even further? When did he last ask for a pay rise? Don’t ignore the income side of the budget – it’s not all about taking a
    chainsaw to expenditure.
  2. Have you got any records of what your expenditure has actually been? It is much easier if you can look back to see where money has been going in the past.
  3. You need a way to monitor your performance against the budget. I can guarantee that your actual expenditure will not be what you planned in the budget and you need to know what differences there are.
  4. Watch out for “petty cash” – money that comes out of the pocket for little things. For example, Matt’s brown bag lunch might not sound a lot, but it sure adds up. If he spends $8 on lunch each day that’s $40 per week, $160 per month and $1920 per annum. Go on a money hunt, to find what those small things are - Carla’s idea of a little notebook is great.
  5. Don’t make the budget so tight that you can’t stick to it. It’s a bit like dieting: if you make it too tough you are likely to throw in the towel and give up!

Thanks Martin - some good food for thought there! Let’s see how the vote goes over the next few days.

Steph

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At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 1:19:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think its hardly fair you are only showing what matts luxury costs, what is the weekly amount for the gym and pay tv?

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 2:26:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

DUR! to above poster...obviously they are around the same cost! Man there are some idiots who post here! *Wonders if people who are so thick should even bother posting*

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 2:28:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

Hi Steph :)

I too would like to know the amounts for the Gym and PayTV, if you had to choose one or the other, what would it be?

Do you use your Gym membership often? if its the only thing you have for YOU then i say dont give it up. if it is an expensive membership and you want to keep going, is there another plan or a cheaper gym you can join? (you have a huge choice around you, your very lucky!) do some shopping, see if you can minimise the amount your paying. if you dont use the Gym often, then its easy, yep give it up, walking and running and hiring fitness dvds from your local video store or library are cheap options too.

Sky TV, i love it! thats MY treat! however it costs us half as much now as it used to, look at the channels you watch, do you watch sport often? do you watch movies often? by taking these two options away from your subscription its another saver without having to give it up, also give Telecom a call, they do a deal with Sky which makes your sky bill even smaller for the basic channels.

$8 a day on lunch doesnt seem much at the time, but it sure adds up! i have the same problem at the moment getting hubby to cut down on buying lunches, and i try to make them for him often... unfortunatly it gets left in the fridge a lot! (fighting a losing battle here.. stubborn man!) a $1 loaf of bread and some marmite lasts for ages and even if you go through a couple of loafs per week, its still a big save, let hubby go food shopping with you, go through what he likes to eat and make nice lunches etc, maybe say he gets to buy his lunch once or twice a week as HIS treat, remember he cant miss out too!

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 3:01:00 PM, Anonymous Sarah Holloway said...

Well, my partner and I earn just under 90k (and there's just the two of us) and no WAY would we spend $8 a day on lunch! Whats wrong with packing a home made sandwich and fruit etc etc?? Also get rid of the pay TV, join the library, BUT keep the gym though. I would sacrifice anything before I got rid of my gym membership. Good luck :)

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 3:31:00 PM, Anonymous stacey_kay said...

Oops sorry put this under the wrong thingy :/ Lol I really dont no what I am doing! But here goes again:

Hi there Steph,

With regards to this weeks question - I want to be really honest. Not only is a budget about comprimise, so is a relationship. I do not know why only one of you have got to miss out on their luxery - how about you BOTH cut something out. Yep I think Matt should start packing his lunch as $8 a day soon adds up to a few packets of nappies a week! But in saying that, you too should drop something. Maybe the gym membership (if you pay as you go and there are no costs involved in stopping) as at least with pay tv you and Matt can sit down together to watch it. If there are other costs in stopping ur membership them maybe pay tv is the thing to go. It is completly up to you two whether you both want to drop something or not and wheather you want to drop something you can both use together or drop the things only one of you reap the benefits for.
P.S You can keep just as fit by going for walks and using cans from the cupboards as weigts!! (trust me, I have been in ur situation and I got that desperate ahha)

Stacey

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 4:57:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

So Matt spends $8 a day on lunch.
You spend "X" amount on the gym per week.
Both of you spend "X" amount on Sky pay TV..

All three (3) things are luxuries..

Matt can make his lunch or you could make it for him the night before. (So he wont forget his lunch each morning when you put it in the fridge.. put his house/car keys on top of the lunch.)

Steph, Cancel your gym membership. You can go walking and put the little one in a stroller (you do have one, don't you?). That way you are getting some exercise... and FRESH air into both you and the little one's lungs... If it raining, put on a jacket and stroller cover over the stroller.
There are heaps of places to walk around Grey Lynn and lots of exciting things to show the little one... Now is the time to teach him about flowers and different smells and what the world looks like... make the walk exciting for him. This is the time that is most important in his learning.

The Sky pay TV - cancel the subscription. I bet you have a video or DVD.. so hire a movie once a week... cos I reckon you were not watching Sky much anyways.


That way you will save heaps... and pay off that mortgage a hell of a lot quicker.

Buying lunch, gym membership and Sky pay TV are luxuries items....

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 8:26:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well the lunches cost $40, not sure what the gym membership costs but mine was $13 a week.Based on that, $27 would be on pay tv per week to match up to matts lunches... I HIGHLY doubt pay tv would be that much, and if a gym membership is any more id be in shock.

Therefore i think matt should cut back on the lunches(ave 1-2 per week)as I feel they would cost more than the pay tv and gym membership per week...

Having said that, perhaps the sky tv could be cut off? Im sure its not just Steph who watches it!

 
At Tuesday, April 18, 2006 9:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

gym membership, sky tv & bought lunches, everyday?? girl, you aren't going to budget very successfully like this! if you don't already have a good pram, invest in one. take baby out for regular walks, even if it is raining. a storm cover & warm blanket/clothes will keep him happy, and a raincoat for you. sky tv? ditch it. instead rent one or two dvds or videos a week, and have a movie night, with home made popcorn, for munchies. $40 per week for bought lunches? no way. matt needs to get used to home prepared lunches. a yoghurt, salad sandwich & piece of fruit is nutritious & much more economical.

 
At Wednesday, April 19, 2006 11:55:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ditch the lunches, they can easily be replaced by making lunch every day or taking left over dinners.

 
At Thursday, April 20, 2006 6:48:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe you could cut back a bit both ways here instead of Matt giving up all his lunches OR you giving up the gym AND pay TV. Thta seems a harsh thing to do and as your planner said it's like a diet - too strict and you end up binging. If I try to budget too tightly I go and spend just for the hell of it! So maybe, yes Matt startts taking his lunch from home BUT once a week or on payday he can buy his lunch and he'll enjoy it as a treat. As for the gym and pay TV, maybe give one up but not both. Other posters have given excellent suggestions for alternative fitness and entertainment. Maybe you could take up a craft (beading is fun or people are willing to pay for those fluffy scarves if you can knit) and sell what you make and the money can be for your luxuries which you'll appreciate more. Also shop for deals - some companies offer power, phone, internet and Sky in a package. Good luck! :-))

 

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Thursday, April 13, 2006

Week 2, Question 2

75/25 against buying a car! OK OK I feel told off. The message is very clear, we will just have to put up with our little car for a while longer. So who do I bill for the chiropractor???

Phew. Now that controversial item is off the agenda, do we take a chainsaw to our spending or go see a mortgage broker and fix our mortgage?

Now I’m sure many of you will be thinking “Steph you idiot you need to do both!” but we just need a steer on what to do first.

Oh, should let you all know that the three of us are off to Matt’s parents over Easter, and will have (shock horror) NO INTERNET ACCESS!

So have a good one everyone, don’t eat too much chocolate and see you all Tuesday.

Steph

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At Thursday, April 13, 2006 11:04:00 AM, Blogger Carla said...

Hi Steph :)

i have no idea about mortgages, so wont comment on that one, all i will say is that if you think a Mortgage Broker is going to help you, then see what they can offer you, its free and you dont have to go with what they will say, but it will give you some more ideas on what you could or could not be doing regarding your home.

Spending is something i know about! and its AMAZING how much extra a week you spend on NOTHING! get a little notebook (they only cost .30c at a stationary place) and take it EVERYWHERE with you, write down EVERY purchase whether it be a $3 coffee or a $150 food shop, at the end of the week, go through your notebook and work out the amount you spent on things you really did not need, its amazing how it adds up and can all contribute towards your household. do the same with the reciept from your food shopping, that extra bottle of coke, that bag of chips, mate thats $5 you could of deducted off your shopping bill. have a treat still, whether it be a special coffee or a mag a week, you cant just do without everything, you still need to live and enjoy too. but look at areas that you can save, install energy efficient light bulbs, wrap your hot water cylinder, all helps with the power bill. look at your internet bill, is there a cheaper plan that you can use? i could go on forever but you get the idea, look at every single reciept, every single bill, and look at what you can do better next time. im still learning too :) but these are ideas that i have picked up and have really opened my eyes to my own spending

have a lovely easter holiday!

 
At Thursday, April 13, 2006 1:27:00 PM, Anonymous Yvonne said...

I agree with everything Carla says. Years ago we did a budget and part of that process was logging everything we spent our money on, and we did this for over 3 months (got very boring but was well worthwhile). Found out our biggest unnecessary expenditure was takeaways!

We have also set up a separate bank account for our bills. Worked out how much our set bills were per year (eg rates, insurance, car rego, power, phone, Sky) as well as our fortnightly grocery shopping and divided it by 26 to get fortnightly average. My husband gets paid fortnightly, so every pay a set amount is paid by AP into the bills account. It is not touched for any other expenditure. Doing the spending log helps to work out your grocery spend etc for the year too.

I should have mentioned we are a single income family with a similar income to yours. I am a stay at home mum with two school children.

Our budgeting is well under control, so we can also 'pay ourselves' each fortnight by putting a set amount into a savings account by AP each pay day (as with the bills account). You could do this to build up your emergency fund again once you've reduced your expenditure.

The most immediate thing you can do, right this instant, is tighten up your spending. Buy only essentials, always asking yourself "is this a want or a need?" Then see a mortgage broker to see if you have the best mortgage deal you can get.

 
At Friday, April 14, 2006 8:16:00 PM, Blogger vdanegerous said...

Refinancing your current mortgage may end up causing you more problems than it's worth. Some Mortgage companies charge like wounded bulls if you want to change your Mortgage company. I would leave your Mortgage where it is if you are paying around 8 percent interest. Keep a track of all your spending for the next couple of weeks and then you can work on where to make cuts in the future spending.

 
At Saturday, April 15, 2006 12:05:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Does that laptop of yours have Microsoft Money on it, my computer came with it. Every transaction I do is electronic even for small things like buying a pie at a service station. The transaction cost me nothing because it is done through my credit card that has a low limit so I can't overspend on it. I use my credit card for every purchase except in places where stores won't excpet it and then I use eftpos. At the end of the month every transaction is downloaded from internet banking to Microsoft Money and then marked into a category. I then know exactly what I am spending my money on and where I can make improvements.

 
At Saturday, April 15, 2006 9:53:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

Go and speak to a mortgage broker
Their advice and help is free (in most instances).
MOST brokers have relationships with most of the mortgage providers - they *should* know who offers what, and who has the best product for you. YOU HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO FOLLOW THROUGH IF YOU ARE NOT 100% CERTAIN YOU ARE NOT DOING THE RIGHT THING.

However...

Speak to your bank
Most financial institutions/banks don't like to lose their business, see if you can wrangle a better rate from your bank, or see if they can match or beat the competitor/s.

(the mortgage broker may have a relationship with that bank and may be able to help there also).

Consider the cost of moving your mortgage
Quite often it does cost a bit of money to move your mortgage: break fees, discharge fees, as well as legal/conveyancing fees. This could be anywhere from a few hundred dollars, to a few thousand...
You have to consider the long term benefit and savings if you do switch financial institutions - but you could probably put these fees back onto your *new* mortgage.

So my suggestion to you, is to speak to a mortgage broker and your bank.

 
At Sunday, April 16, 2006 7:33:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Honestly- you live beyond your means- get hold of everything that you dont use and dont need and sell the darn stuff on Trade Me like all the rest of us do. Great fun and great way to clear those pesky bills.

 
At Monday, April 17, 2006 11:23:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If the Mortgage Broker is FREE to speak to, (ask first when you ring up if they offer free advise) then speak to one to get the advise that is needed.

If they are going to cost you then don't spend any more money finding out...

Then option 2 is where I would vote for but only if the Mortgage Broker costs money.

BTW hasn't it cost you heaps of money to go away this weekend.. you know the cost of petrol ($1.61 per litre)... surely you could have spent a nice quiet family weekend at home... you know quality time with your child and husband... going to walk around Western Springs and having a picnic together... or go to the beach... which costs you not a lot at all.

 
At Monday, April 17, 2006 8:18:00 PM, Anonymous tiktok said...

Firstly, I think you would benefit from preparing a detailed monthly budget.

An advanced template can be found here:
http://www.macro-x.co.nz/free_downloads.htm

Or a basic one:
http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/templates/default.aspx

This will help you to track your expenses and also identify which items you are really struggling with.

At the moment, from your annual budget, you are spending more than you earn so...

Income
--------
Are you able to increase your earnings?

Options:
1. Get a part-time job (working from home?)
2. Your husband does overtime regularly
3. Your husband gets a second job
4. You sell some possessions
5. Get a boarder

Expenses
-----------
How can you decrease your spending?
I would look at what your major expenses are - mortgage and food. Usually the bigger expenses are easiest to reduce.

Mortgage: IIRC someone mentioned earlier that refinancing your mortgage would save you heaps. Talk to your loan provider and / or a mortgage broker about your options.

Food: Also mentioned earlier, shop once a week, buy in bulk, choose the no-frills options, shop online, reduce extras (fancy cheese, expensive cuts of meat, alcohol etc), use coupons / discounts / loyalty cards or shop at Pak n Save..

Other options:
1. Reduce extras (SKY TV, entertainment expenses - watch a DVD instead of going to the movies)
2. Make sure bill money is deducted or set aside soon after your husband is paid. This way you will not spend money you don't have (it may mean setting up a separate bank account)
3. Choose cheaper options - rent a DVD vs movies, walk to the shops vs petrol, no frills food vs fancy etc
4. Insurance - is it all with the same provider (for a discount?)
5. Cheaper forms of heating - blankets and sleeping bags in the lounge

Some of these are relatively drastic but usually can be modified depending on circumstances.

At this stage I really think it would be beneficial to produce a more detailed monthly budget to help identify specific areas for improvement.

 

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Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Save or put it on the house?

Hi everyone

Well, Martin Hawes isn’t too impressed about our plans to buy a bigger car. Here’s what he had to say:

Steph

The first thing that you and Matt need to do is think about whether you really (and I mean REALLY!) need that new car.

Cars are the bane of every financial adviser’s life - they destroy budgets. The thing that most people forget with cars is depreciation – the moment you drive it away from the seller, it is worth less (I wonder what you paid for that car that is now worth $4,000). And it keeps on getting worth less as the weeks and kilometres turnover. Petrol, insurance, repairs and registration costs pale to insignificance compared to the loss of value over time and kilometres. Nevertheless, that depreciation is real money which has to be found when you are up for replacement.

If you add up all the costs for the car (repairs, petrol depreciation, interest if you borrow etc) you might be shocked at the total.

If you and Matt really do have to buy a car but can wait a bit, you should save for it. You should save either by use of a deposit account or by reducing the mortgage by $5,000 - having got the bank to agree that you can draw it back down when you are ready (the revolving credit facility would have been ideal for that).

If you have to have the car now, put it on the house – i.e. increase the mortgage. Home finance is the cheapest available and that will be your best form of borrowing.

But, of course this will mean that you mortgage will go to $216,000 and along with your car decreasing in value you are going backwards. That will be exacerbated by the extra interest that you will have to pay.

I had thought that you were worried about your finances and were determined to get them straight…

Martin

Mmmm, we are worried about our finances but I’m also concerned about my back! Anyway, we’ll see how the voting goes over the next day or so. Oh, and keep those comments coming (Isn’t Carla a star?).

Thanks!
Steph

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At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 3:37:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are in debt, when you get $68,000 a year... then you are a tosser and a losser.

So many have to budget on $8,000 to $12,000 a year (on a benefit). Thats paying rent/mortgage, food, clothing, dr's and run a car and they manage to do it really well.

You cant even do that.

Sorry but you and your husband are the biggest lossers in life.

Throw your credit card debt onto your home mortgage.

Keep the same car... you dont need to be up with the Jones's or Smith's or what ever your neighbour's name is. Better still walk to the local shop with your child in the pram and get your groceries done like the rest of us do it.

Sell your home and downsize.
Stop buying stuff that you don't really need. Baby can wear cloth nappies... learn to stay at home and make your own coffee and wash nappies.

Cheers and see you next week...

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 3:59:00 PM, Blogger deborah12 said...

Are u serious steph
Arent you wanting to cut down on things and save money there is only one income and u want to buy a new car .
I have read previous posts and didnt think it was too bad but this is ridiculous, If your car has no serious repairs and is driving alright i would not bother buying a new one it seems like a waste of money and not a sound desicion, STOP MAKING STUPID DECISIONS the other thing is if shopping at foodtown i would save money and shop at pak'n'save and buy your fruit and vege from a local green grocier where it will be much cheaper

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 4:16:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

So how long does it take to get one's comments put up on the board for everyone to read?

How long is the delay factor???

If someone at "www.sorted.org.nz" or even 'Steph' could answer this.. it would be much appreciated.

Cheers.
(4.17pm on 11/4/06) - I posted a message about 20 minutes ago before typing up this post.

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 4:47:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't believe this...

Your budget shows that at the moment you can't afford you're existing expenditure and you want to spend another $5000? Thats FUBAR even if you are fictitious.

What's next week's question?

"Well we got the car but now we have to get a double garage to keep it dry during winter - where can we get $12,000?"

sheesh

This is a WANT, not a NEED - get your virtual priorities right!

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:12:00 PM, Blogger sortme said...

Hi and thanks for your comments.

I do read everything that goes up, and I try and post them through as soon as possible. Bit more time for replies now - so thanks to everyone who leaves a name I can reply to directly!

I don't want to buy a *new* car, I just want a different car! The 2 door thing is more than a hassle, its really tricky getting Caleb in and out safely and is a nightmare at the supermarket carpark when I can't get the door open all the way and have to lean in.

We looked at what's out there and think that if we just "do it now" it'll be off the list of things to sort out forever. So we want a car that'll last ages - not another problem for 2 years down the track. We don't have the revolving credit thing so there is this chance to put it on the mortgage now.

Thx, Steph

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Get the car, i fact since you own a house, you can just put one on HP, probably no deposit too. Get a 30,000 Lexis or maybe a 45,000 Pajero, safer for the kids going to school. If you can go to a place that gives you 5 grand cash back, so you can go for a nice holiday around the north island in your new wagon.

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 6:00:00 PM, Anonymous Marie said...

Yeah well hey look Steph, I know when you know how things COULD be, it's hard to settle for awkward doors and things, but if you are struggling with your mortgage now, then struggle on with doors and things you'll have to. I think the difficulty is when you've lived and worked in an environment where you have the money or resources to make things comfortable and hassle-free, and suddenly you have to put up with things, it's a bit of a shock. But there you go. Could be worse eh.

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:07:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Steph

The budget you prepared says you can't afford what you're spending now let alone something new.

What makes you think you can afford to get a new car when you can't even manage now?

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:37:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

But why do you need an expensive car? If you want a four-door, sell your car and buy something with the money you get from the sale. There's no need to spend anything extra, and just because a car isn't a '98 doesn't mean it's going to fall apart any second.

Buying an expensive car when you're trying to get out of debt is just ridiculous.

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 8:05:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

[QUOTE=steph]I don't want to buy a *new* car, I just want a different car! The 2 door thing is more than a hassle, its really tricky getting Caleb in and out safely and is a nightmare at the supermarket carpark when I can't get the door open all the way and have to lean in.
So we want a car that'll last ages - not another problem for 2 years down the track[/QUOTE]

you want want want...!!!

Life is not about wanting everything given to them on a plate... You have to earn things..
So what you have to lean into a car to put things in it..
Gee we all have had to do it, sure it is a pain in the butt. but get over it. Put the groceries and other shopping in the boot of the car. Park the car away from all other cars so that you can open up the door more... use your brain and think about it.

No one can guarantee a car will last 2 years or 5 years... you could have a prang tomorrow or 3 years down the track...

You dont NEED a another car, stick with what you have.

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:42:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wil give you some advice my Gran gave me: NEVER BUY ANYTHING UNLESS YOU HAVE THE MONEY FOR IT!!!

Learn to save money and make do... as per other comments you salary is $68.000- you have poor money handling skills and are materialistic.

Learn to be thrifty.. my car is about to die so what do I do? I use a bus (yes with a baby while studying fulltime at university and lugging around 20 tonne accounting textbooks)

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 11:18:00 PM, Blogger deborah12 said...

I read what u wrote steph So u say it is a safety reason with your son your the one in your prediciment so i wont comment on that, If you do buy a car id suggest you have a good look around at auctions and if your in auckland there are the car fairs in ellerslie race course

Also if you do choose to buy a new car you are going to have to pull money out of another area of your budget good luck with your decision personally i would not buy a new car because if ther car may need repairs in the next 2 yrs that is a long time and your circumstances may change like you may get a job wheither it is full or part time

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 11:31:00 PM, Anonymous CT said...

steph
i have been reading this from time to time. i was under the impression that you have 2 cars & live in the central city area. if you do have 2 cars, sell one, and keep the one that is most suitable for your family. in the central city, there is an excellent bus service. nothing to stop hubby busing to work, and saves petrol money. if you really want another car, and this is a WANT not a NEED, bank the money from the sale of the other car & save for the rest of the purchase price. believe it or not, people DO cope with babies & 2 door cars. been there, done that, with a baby & a toddler.

 
At Wednesday, April 12, 2006 12:13:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

If it was an ABSOLUTE NECESSITY, I would say put it on your mortgage - but as a new loan over 3-4 years (even less if you can manage it). Do not comtemplate taking it over the life of your mortgage (25-30 years!) - this will turn your $5000 loan into something MUCH BIGGER!! Putting it over a shorter term will allow you to repay the car back in a similar time, as you would a personal loan or hire purchase, but at mortgage rates.

But I see this as a WANT, and therefore suggest you get your current financial position sorted first, and save for an upgrade.
Sorry

Anyhow, just my thoughts... (sorry couldn't frighten you with any figures today, am away for the next three weeks without my mortgage calculators!).

JB

 
At Thursday, April 13, 2006 12:20:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

oh my gosh! What are you thinking??
SAVE for that car! If you put it on your mortgage it will up your repayments & over the course of your mortgage you will be paying an awful lot of interest on the car.
As for it being inconvenient to get your son in and out of the car because of not being able to open the door, well park further away! I managed to do perfectly fine with a 2 door car until we had saved up for a new car.
To help you savings start using your buggy & walking to where you need to go. The beauty of Auckland is that most places that you NEED o go are in walking distance & its a great way to get fit.
The really silly thing is that you should have made plans & put into action savings for a car when you first got pregnant and had a very good income.

I sometimes think that day to day money management should be a compulsory subject at school so the good habits are there before "real life" hits!

 

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Monday, April 10, 2006

Week 2, Question 1

Thanks guys for helping us sort out Matt’s credit card. It's great to get rid of a chunk of debt, although a bit scary to have our emergency fund down to just $700.

Now I know we shouldn't be thinking about spending any more money right now, but we really need to do something about our car.

It's not flash (most of the car costs in our budget are for petrol) just a hatchback, but it’s getting too small for us now. With just two doors it's a real pain (in my back!) to get Caleb and his car seat in and out. And once the buggy and change bag etc. are in the hatch there's not much room for anything else.

Matt reckons we could get about 4 grand for our car (maybe more thru TM Motors!), so that would leave us needing around $5,000 to trade up to something bigger but not over the top - like a 1998 station wagon.

We could find a way to save up the extra money we need, but seeing as we're going to review our mortgage soon anyway, why not just put it on the house? We've got plenty of equity, so another five grand wouldn't hurt, surely?

Your thoughts?

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At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 9:34:00 AM, Blogger Carla said...

Steph, remember you are trying to get out of debt, not add more to it, i would either put up with what you have for now, and save up enough cash to buy a car outright, or sell what you have and use that money and that money only to get something bigger, for $4000-$5000 you can get something decent, you just have to do a lot of looking around. bargains are out there.

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:17:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you think you will get $4K for the old hatchback you are a bit misguided. Did you know that car yards that advertise minimun $4K trade-in only add that $4K to the cost of the car you are buying? Instead of putting yourself in more debt, just keep the car & handle the inconvenience. I still have a 2 door hatch with a kid & it's not that bad. Buy yourself a $20 Stroller from the Warehouse & don't take so much stuff with you. No point getting yourself further in the debt over a little bother like that. If the car was dead I could understand it but it isn't so why spend more money?

 
At Tuesday, April 11, 2006 2:17:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

You can buy a 1994 subaru station wagon for under $5000. You should have no need for anything for more expensive. Ever. You do not need to spend more than $5k on a vehicle in NZ. Anything more is just for prestige.

 
At Friday, April 14, 2006 8:09:00 PM, Blogger vdanegerous said...

Hang on to the car you have got for a bit longer and don't spend anymore than $5,000 on another car when you have saved that much. Avoid paying interest as much as possible.

 

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Friday, April 07, 2006

Debt dilemma

Hi Everyone

We've talked to Martin Hawes about our budget, our debt and our current dilemma. He said:

Steph

The answer to your credit card question is fairly straight forward, but first, there is another option. You could as I suggested have a revolving credit facility, pay your emergency funds into it and then pay your bills from it (including that credit card bill). This way your savings and any other money that you have will be working as hard as it can by reducing interest on a daily basis (instead of gaining that little bit of after tax interest your savings are currently earning).

You’ve decided not to go ahead with that because you say you lack the discipline to resist the temptation of credit facilities (you told me that Matt is a tiger with the credit card –what is his version of this?).

Anyway – no revolving credit – fair enough, a good call in the circumstances.

So I do think you should pay the credit card bill with your emergency savings as soon as you can. You will be paying a horrendous interest rate on the credit card (my latest statement says 19.75%) – whatever it is, it will be much higher than the after tax interest earned on your savings at the bank.

I’d also really love you to cut up that credit card, but unfortunately I think that you had better keep it (but not in Matt’s wallet!). When you have paid off the credit card you will have only $700 of emergency money left (not a lot to cover illness, redundancy, leaking roof etc). If something bad happens you may need to draw out cash on the credit card. I really hope this does not happen but an unused credit card left in the bottom drawer could be a life saver. Just make sure that you do not open that bottom drawer unless you really, really need to.

Martin

Revolving credit? My head's spinning enough as it is! haha.

So pay off the credit card? Comments below seem to agree, but 1/3 of the votes so far say keep the emergency fund. I hate to see that cash cushion go, especially since with our budget we're not going to get it back in a hurry. But we'll go with whatever the voting says over the next wee while.

Thoughts anyone? Steph.

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At Friday, April 07, 2006 11:40:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with posters so far that say "pay off the credit card and then put your usual minimum credit payments back into your emergency fund so it gets topped up again". I know it feels sooooooo important to have that emergency buffer, but in the end you're losing money way faster on your interest payments on your credit card. I think if you did the sums you'd find it wouldn't take long to restock your emergency fund at all.

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 12:05:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Agree with Martins advice excpet for keeping it in the bottom draw. Give it to the bank. Much safer there. Not only temptation to spend it but the first place burglars through is your bottom drawer.

Also the 1/3 of votes who say don't pay off your credit card and keep the savings, well one doesn't have to think to hard to wonder aloud how New Zealand has become a nation of debt. Overextending themselves on credit with money they don't have. Why isn't this subject taught in schools? In blows me away how badly educated NZer's are financially! You only have to read the trademe messageboard for a snapshot of the financially uneducated. Mind you it seems common sense doesn't even prevail on the message boards!

As always, your humble commentator. PS Do I get an award for being the best contributor to your blog???

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 2:13:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you should definately pay off the credit card. the high interest charges alone make it a nightmare. as a previous poster said, you can always add the money you would have paid monthly on your card to your already in place emergency fund deposit. good on you for steering clear of the revolving credit. it's too big a temptation to rack up more debt. If you must use credit, only go with interest free terms, pay a deposit towards the debt & always pay more than the minimum payment due. it also has the added spin-off of giving you a good credit rating.

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 2:47:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

I also agree with paying off your credit card debt with your emergency fund. A credit card can cause an unhealthy cycle of spending the banks money (which, of course they WANT you to do) with horrendous interest costs. Speak to your husband about his wayward way of using the card, or take it off him. Even better, pay off the debt and close the account. That way neither you or hubby are tempted to use it (the banks will happily give it back to you at almost a moments notice!) I also applaud you on turning down the revolving credit facility (again, the benefits of having such a facility is really only to those who are disciplined...). Once the debt is repaid, you may be able to start saving again!?

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 4:39:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

I agree to pay off the credit card too, putting your minimum credit payments back into your emergancy fund is a great idea and it will get you back to where you were before in no time. we had huge issues with our CC (esp mine, im crap at credit) and ended up cutting it up! no more allowed for me!

your doing well, it is a lot for you to get your head around, but once you start its actually really fun and seeing the money you save is a fantastic reward :)

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 11:18:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is foolish to owe money on a credit card, which is high interest, if you have money sitting around in an emergency fund. With no emergency fund temporarily you can still rely on the credit card if something comes up. In the meantime - save on the interest!

 
At Saturday, April 08, 2006 5:02:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pay the credit card off then get an icecream container, fill it half full with water and freeze it plonk in your credit card fill it to the top with water and freeze again. so your card is encased in a big lump of ice. If you need to use your card you have it but in the time it takes to thaw it out hopefully it will give you enough time to rationally think of any better solutions other than using the card

 
At Sunday, April 09, 2006 3:07:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

How does anyone get into that amount of debt? By using a credit card.

Get your scissors & cut up the card.
Don't fall into the trap of living off future income.
Unless you happen to be psychic.

 

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Week 1, Question 2

Well, now we’ve got a budget together we can see that debt is sucking up a lot of our income.

We’re going to follow up the ‘biggie’ (our mortgage) soon, but in the meantime there’s the small matter of Matt’s credit card. It’s currently got $1800 owing on it and we’re only paying just over the minimum each month.

We might have an easy solution to this one, though. Our budget doesn’t show it, ‘cos we’re no longer putting any money into it, but we do have a $2500 savings fund for emergencies (in case the roof needs fixing, that sort of thing).

So what do you reckon? Should we pay off Matt’s credit card with our savings - and have one less debt to worry about - or keep all of our emergency fund for a rainy day?

Thx, Steph

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At Friday, April 07, 2006 8:53:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pay the debt off first. Tackle the debts with the highest interest first. Savings mean nothing if you have debt. eg. the interest you make off your savings might be 6% p/a but the interest you pay on your credit card will be approx 18% p/a and that is for purchases only, not cash advances that you would use in an emergency, where the interest is usually calculated daily. Once the credit card is paid off, return the card to the bank but keep the account open in case of an emergency. The payments that you would usually make on your credit card can then go into savings and once you are comfortable with the level of savings you have, you can cancel the credit card.

 
At Friday, April 14, 2006 8:04:00 PM, Blogger vdanegerous said...

I would pay off the credit card first. Savings accounts don't charge interest but credit cards do.

 

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Thursday, April 06, 2006

Budget blow out!

Hi Everyone

There have been a lot of comments from people who can't believe we'd 'struggle' on $68k. Well, I didn't think we'd be struggling either - but what I really can't believe is just how much we're over budget!!!.

We've put in our actual spending, or made reasonable guesses for some things, and loaded it into the Sorted Budget Calculator.

So anyway, here's the link to a screenshot of our results page.

Thx, Steph.

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At Friday, April 07, 2006 7:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you put it on your credit card, then make your minimum credit card payments back to your emergency fund, you will be better off. and, if you have an emergency in the meantime, you can take the emergency funds from your credit card (wont put you any further ahead, but its a risk you might have to take)

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 9:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK re your budget. Fist of all I can see you are paying approx $328 a month on a vehicle. That would mean you have quite a falshy vehicle. Step 1. Get rid of it. There are plenty of vehicles around for $2000 which may not be the flashest, but will serve your requirements to get from A to B. That reduces your defecit to $7863. Also your alcohol bill is astronomical. $100 a month is ridiculous. Take that out of the equation and you're down to $6,663. You still have an entertainment budget which can well be halved to $115 a month and include your alcohol in that which will still allow you to buy 4 bottles of wine a month and still have $60 odd to go to movies etc...now you are down to $5283. Your food bill is too high. You could easily spend $150 a week and still be very comfortable. That brings you to $603 defecit.You could either cancel your pay tv subscription or cancel your magazine subscription (keep one or the other) you must still have some pleasures in life. Stop buying gifts for people and start making them! Not only will it save you money, but people generally appreciate them so much more because you put more heart into them. It will keep you busy during the day too. It is important to keep some savings going so pay off the credit card and keep paying what you would have paid on the card into a savings account.

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 5:12:00 PM, Anonymous JB (SAHM of 2 under 3's - previously working in mortgage finance industry) said...

Your grocery bill is excessive for 2 adults!
I too think $150pw is a more reasonable amount to be spending (incl toiletries, cleaning products etc). Save approx $4500

Like my first post, plant a vege patch(although this will take time to grow... you will reap the benefits of fresh produce at minimal cost).

Stop buying 'top shelf' brands, and start buying no-name brands which have similar quality at a more affordable price. And stop buying luxury/comfort foods.

Buy meat from a butchery, or when on sale at the supermarket, and produce from a green grocer, although it depends on their location, because petrol cost to get there may outweigh the savings.

Perhaps (I don't want to assume), you could look at how much you eat (most of us eat more than we need to). Serve smaller portions, and see your food go further. Rather than eating until your plate is clean, save left overs for lunch!?

Pay TV & newspaper/magazine subscriptions
You don't need these!
Save $1080
As nice as it is to have 40 odd channels to watch, you don't need to have SKY tv. If there is a rugby game hubby just has to watch, surely he has a mate who would happily have him over to enjoy the game with!? And your magazine and paper subscriptions - you can always read the news online (or watch it on free to air TV)? Besides, how do you find time to watch tv with a young bub in the house??

Cut back on alcohol!
to $30 - $60pm
Save $480
I know it can be hard, when work associates and friends can be demanding that you keep up your pre baby social life, but it is time to face reality - right now you just can't afford it. If you must, buy hubby one bottle of his poison a month, and tell him to make it last. And perhaps only indulge in one or two bottles of *cheapish* wine a month.

Limit your reccreational activities
to $30 - $60pm (?)
Save $2040!!
Instead of going out with friends for dinner, why not have a 'pot luck' dinner once or twice a month? That way you get to socialise, but without the restaurant prices (or having to pay for enough food and drink for everyone?).
If are are avid movie goers, go on a Tuesday night, or go once the 'no complimentaries' has been lifted from the movie, and use the shopper docket two-for-one savings coupon on the back of your grocery receipt.
If hubby is the kind of bloke who MUST go to the motor racing at Pukekohe, the rugby, the cricket and on fishing charters with the blokes, he may have to think again... or forfeit his alcohol allowance for a few months in order to afford it?? Fortunately, most men are pretty stubborn and will insist on going regardless of the fact they can't afford it... (even more so when they are the bread winners!).

Great idea about making your own presents!
I wouldn't have thought of that one!
But I think $660 is reasonable (no savings here sorry!)
Grandparents would love home-made calendars with a photo of your cherished bub on it, or fridge magnets (again with photos of bubs on them).
Suggest to your present expecting siblings, that you would rather do away with presents (only buy for nieces/nephews). But again, social pressures and expectations may call for you to oblige!

Instead of buying cool toys for your bub (which get used for a relatively short time then stored), check out a local toy library.

Car
I can only assume that the figure provided is the running cost of ONE car, plus insurance, rego & WOF costs. As looking at your insurance cost, it is very small (our contents insurance & car insurance is about that - without having house insurance as well)? If that is the case, not much you can do here.

You could down-grade (depending on what kind of vehicle you have), and use proceeds of the sale (after buying another), to further reduce your debts).(??)

Debts
Is this solely mortgage? If so, fix at approx 8%pa over 30 years ($1549pm) or 25 years ($1629) approx. If this debt is in fact just mortgage this will save you $6769pa approx!!)
(shop around, or enrol the help of a mortgage broker) to get you a good deal. There are many non-bank mortgage providers who offer competitive interest rates, as well as the mainstream banks. Most banks will penalise you for breaking a fixed loan, but sometimes it may be financially beneficial to pay the fee and re-fix or go elsewhere!

IF this figure also includes HPs or personal loans, consider rolling these into your mortgage BUT set them up for a 1-4 year term (if your financial institution will allow). Adding your $3K HP to your mortgage for 30 years turns into $8.3K debt over the life of the loan)! (assuming 8%pa).

Managing your money!
I suggest you set up three bank accounts
1. Day to day (food, petrol, entertainment, alcohol, travel (to work) etc)
2. Utilities and insurance
3. Misc (presents, holidays, house maintenance, medical, clothing etc).

That way you shouldn't blow your budget!

YOU CAN MAKE IT WORK... AND MAY FIND YOU STILL HAVE MONEY LEFT OVER FOR SAVINGS! or, can allow yourself a *slightly* larger budget on some items than I have suggested.

GOOD LUCK,
Jolene

 
At Monday, April 10, 2006 2:07:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok here are my suggestions:

Buy a car that is cheaper to run like more fuel efficient. If I lived in Auckland I would ride a motorbike to work instead of car and that way you could ride through a traffic jam and motorbikes are heaps cheaper to run. If you have more than one car get rid of one and save on registration, WOF and maintenance for more than one vehicle.
You are spending $240 on food cut this way back, when I was last flatting $180 fed 5 adults and 1 kid and I was buying brand name products too. Do whatever you can to keep yourself healthy and save heaps on medical costs. Read the paper at work or online instead of buying a paper the same may even be able to be done with magazines. Download your music for free instead of buying CD's you can also download movies so forget about renting out DVDs all the time. Last Christmas we didn't spend a huge amount on gifts in fact instead we had a $2 Christmas. This is a good idea if your children are too young or too old to enjoy Christmas, last year we all just bought $2 presents and had fun playing with them on Christmas day.
The final solution is if you have a spare room take on a boarder or a home stay student thats if you can handle having an extra person in the house.

 

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Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Comments feedback

Hi Everyone

I've given Matt a hurry up on helping me with the budget. Its a bit scary!!! I know everyone thinks $68k is heaps but... well, you'll see and then tell me where we're going wrong.

There's been some great stuff posted in the comments. I thought I'd bring out the stuff that struck a nerve with me and respond directly here. Thanks to those people that took the time to think about it and post something really smart. If I've missed something let me know, its not because I haven't read it, its because I haven't had time to respond.

Is the problem really debt repayment? Or is the problem that they don't know how to make their money work for them? I still think going to see a financial planner would be best.

It looks like mortgage and food are our biggest ticket items. Well, we bought in Grey Lynn a while ago, and we did it to be close to work. Now we want to stay here to be close to family, both our parents are in Auckland and with living right here we can get my Mum around to help with babysitting anytime - it's hard to keep her away sometimes! So we want to keep the house, I think.

At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:01:09 PM, JB said...
In this fictitious situation...

Fix your mortgage
(which is a relatively small mortgage for Auckland) of $211,000 for 5 years at approx 8%pa, with monthly repayments of $1549pm (assuming a 30 year term).

Wow, okay, thanks for thinking that one through! Click the title link above or here to read the full comment on that. That is/was a great post. Quite a few other commenters (?) said things along those lines. I can't believe how much we spend on food when I added it up. As well as the mortgage we're going to tackle our grocery bill big time! But it looks like rather than one big problem to solve, it might be bunch of little things working together that make a difference?

Living in a big city such as Auckland means that cost of living is greater. Of course comparibly, incomes are greater. So while $68k may sound a lot to some of our rural dwellers, it is actually very easily spent in Auckland.

That might be it. There is quite a good cost comparison of Auckland versus elsewhere there. Can anyone tell me if it is really like that? Okay, so I knew it was expensive here (I didn't grow up in Auckland so I *do know* what the rest of the country is like btw!) but didn't think through how much it affects us day to day. Matt and my Mum would kill me if I even suggested moving though!

Anyway, thats it for now. Thx, Stph.

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At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 1:34:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Haha! Two of those comments you posted were from me! I'm the young mum (under thirty) who lives in Auckland too...Good to know that I'm on the right track (or at least pretend to know to be!). It shocks me how many people live with blinkers on! I've never paid any attention to the negative people because the only people who try to bring you down are the ones who are too afraid to try it themselves. Will continue to read Stephs blog with interest.

*does a wiggly dance back to her corner* :o)

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 1:40:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

PS. re living in Auckland versus living elsewhere. I have done both and found that I am still better off in Auckland as the incomes are much greater than anywhere else. There is also the variety of jobs which means you can walk out of one and into another. I know that those opportunities do not exist even in fairly large cities such as Tauranga. Count how many people live in Auckland and ask yourself, why are they all here? Hmmm.

Finally my last hint re your food shopping. Do it over the internet. Woolworths are particulary good. You can cherrypick (if you aren't brand loyal) on the specials page. It also means you can spend up to what you have budgeted for and not a cent over. Stops impulse buying and even better, you save yourself a good hour because they pick it, pack it and deliver it to your door. I can't recommend it highly enough!

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 1:44:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh sorry, one last thing from me. Assuming your mortgage payments are $387 a week, I highly doubt you would be better off renting. I don't know Grey Lynn market rent but I think I can safely assume the rent would be higher than your current mortgage payments. You were lucky you bought a few years ago. That house is going to be your making! The capital gains on it must be amazing! Ok seriously this time I am stopping!

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 4:54:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm bored now. Short attention span. You should cheat on your husband or something.

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 8:56:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

"It looks like mortgage and food are our biggest ticket items."

Watch your power bill as well. Now that the days are getting shorter & colder you will really notice that you are paying heaps more than you used to pre-baby. (1) You are at home a lot more, and (2) you need to keep the house warmer.

 

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Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Advice about advice!

Hi Everyone

Okay, so talking to my brother seemed like a good idea at the time. I'll take it from you guys that its not.

Some of the comments below reckon that a financial planner is a good idea, some say a waste of money, and that we should check out the free budgeting services. I guess there are more than just the two options (brother or planner) to consider on this one. Everyone does seem to agree that doing a proper budget and a getting control of the mortgage are our two biggest/best things to do.

Anyway, I mentioned we had Martin Hawes looking at what we're doing - not as our financial planner, but as a financial expert who can help explain some of the issues. This is what he's said so far:

Steph,

Brothers-in-law (along with cousins, kindly uncles and the likes) have cost more people more money than just about anything that I know. You need advice – good advice.

Your main issue is your $211,000 mortgage. If it is a standard mortgage repaid fortnightly over 25 years at 9.5%, you will end up paying $435,810.25 for your house. That’s the same again in interest payments!

There is a great deal that you can do to make the mortgage more efficient and so reduce that interest cost. You need to start up “Project Mortgage” – open a file and set out to save as much as you can of that cost.

The first thing that you should do is learn all about mortgages – how they work, the products that are available and the different interest rates from different providers. Go to the library or search the web (I know www.sorted.org.nz has plenty of information) and play with some online calculators to see the difference that even an apparently small interest rate reduction can make.

Concentrate on two things: first getting the lowest interest rate possible. You can do this by using fixed rate mortgages which have mostly been much cheaper than the variable rate ones. The bulk of your mortgage should be on a fixed rate. You may also have a revolving credit facility (you will need to be disciplined!) which Matt’s salary is paid into (along with any other money that you have – savings or work bonuses), and which you pay the bills out of. The idea of this is to keep total indebtedness as low as possible. Consider also switching to a lower cost provider although be sure that they offer the products and services that you need – e.g. a full range of fixed rates and revolving credit facilities.

Second, make sure that you are putting as much into the mortgage as you possibly can. Lenders calculate interest daily and every day that you have their money, you pay.

While you are up-skilling yourself on mortgages you should also see some professional advisers:

1. Financial planners can help. Go and see a selection on a no obligation basis and see if you can spend an hour or two with one to help with the mortgage. It might cost you a few hundred dollars – but the savings will be far greater than this.

2. Mortgages brokers can help. They will want you to switch to a different lender, but if they can show you how that will save you money the hassle will be worth it.

3. Your bank might be able to help – especially if it knows you are considering switching.

Steph, you and Matt have a lot going for you with all that income. Get some proper advice – it does not have to cost much; it may not cost anything at all. And anyway as an old friend of mine once said: if you think that dealing with a professional is expensive, you wait till you deal with an amateur.

Regards, Martin


At this stage I'm not ready to commit the $$$ to going to a planner, we might, but some people have given us really detailed comments below, so we're going to run with those and see where it takes us.

Thx TM MB!

PS. Working on our budget now, there's a lot to go through but its well worth it. Link soon!

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At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 5:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

martin hawes (who would charge $5000) for advice states that steph should see a financial planner for a no obligation quote, once they found she had no money they would not be interested, therefore this is nonsense, she needs free budget advice, and any advice from a min wage employee should be taken with a grain of salt

 

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Week 1, Question 1

Parental leave's gone. :-(

We're down to one income. (Matt's getting $68,000 which is not to be sneezed at, but it's a lot less than we're used to!) Anyway, my brain feels like bursting when I look at our bank statement so I reckon we need some help.

Matt thinks we need to see a financial planner, but my brother Dave is a bit of a whiz with money so I wonder if I should talk to him. He's making a killing on the stock market, or so he reckons. What should I do?

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At Friday, March 31, 2006 12:16:00 PM, Anonymous Mike said...

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At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:04:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi, I would ignore the get rid of steph brigade. I am sure that a lot of people will be watching to see what real advice is givin. I have given my vote for this week but I think the options should have been go to a budget advisor not a finacial advisor.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:18:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Definitely I would see a financial planner. While your brother may be making a "killing", at a time like this you would be better off keeping your money secure. If something went bad then thats your money gone down the tubes. "Dabbling" in the sharemarket is fine but not at a time when your worried about your finances.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:36:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

invest in a copy of http://secure.richdad.com/Category.asp?Cat=Games

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:40:00 AM, Anonymous DoTheyKnow said...

stocks wont get you passive income, your goal should be to figure out ways of generating passive income, that way even if you are not working you still have money comming in.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 1:55:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

what a dumb question!!! there are FREE budget and advisory services available. why would they pay for a financial planner or let their unqualified brother loose on their finances when they can go to free advice services or hey here's a bright idea. they could read sorted. wow who'd have thought it.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 2:57:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

The financial planners I have visited have been free of cost. I would prefer to have a professional show me how to generate wealth than some old duck at the CAB show me how to budget. I don't think the rich use budget advisory. I guess it depends what your focus is, save money, or generate wealth?

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 3:10:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

You said you are used to more money so go and earn some extra money, take in children at home, find another parent like yourself who would like to job share. There are many working mums out there, you dont have to sit at home until the situation gets out of control. Didnt you take a years leave with pay when you have the baby.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 3:44:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you cant live on $68000 then you do need help, whe you have to live on $22000 then you have something to moan about.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 4:30:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Free of cost financial planners? Where do you get those? Ours takes a percentage of our money

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:11:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

agree, financial planners may do an initial free consult but that won't solve anything. besides financial planners work with increasing assets, in this case the problem is debt repayment. different thing. anyway yawn all fictional boring boring

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 10:18:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is the problem really debt repayment? Or is the problem that they don't know how to make their money work for them? I still think going to see a financial planner would be best. My first step of course would be how to minimise debt. A financial planner can help you do that in regards to mortgages and insurance. Then they can give you advice on a life time plan to generate wealth (or get your money working for you). From my understanding, yes they will do an initial free consultation, then they will put together a package for you which will cost a few hundred and then basically anything they sign you up for after that they get a commission from the Company. Remember it is still your choice who you sign on with, you are only being advised. I still think it would be money well spent. As many have alluded to they are not at the point of destitution. They need some guidance in mapping out their finances. I don't think this is a case for budget advisory. But thats just my opinion.

 
At Friday, April 14, 2006 8:01:00 PM, Blogger vdanegerous said...

No offence to Dave but I would choose the financial planner as they make a living from helping people make money therefore they would know a few tricks that Dave would not know.

 

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Monday, April 03, 2006

Thanks for your comments!

Hi Everyone

Thanks for all the comments over the weekend, sorry I couldn't respond to them all faster. Rather than try answer each one, I hope this post will cover some of the important stuff for now.

There's a lot to think about, we're going to try and do what is suggested in the comments and work out a complete budget. Probably most of what we're worried about is not having a good grip on the money, and we've seen people earning more than us get into situations where, like one of the comments says, the mortgage/house owns them not the other way around!

A lot of the comments have been that what Matt earns ($68k) is pretty good and we shouldn’t have any worries. Well, we know that should be enough, which is sort of why we’re doing this. We want to have our finances sorted, and make the most of where we’re at.

We’re not asking for any hand-outs, and we’re not looking for people to feel sorry for us. That’s not the point - this blog is called “Sort Me” not “Poor Me”!

Keep an eye out for my Budget, and this week I’ll ask you to vote on a couple of big decisions we need to make to kick this process off!

Thx, Steph.

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At Monday, April 03, 2006 3:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is an absolute waste of tax payers money. Ficticous steph and her rich husband who cant seem to sort their own lives out. What a joke. I hope blogspot bans this blog

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 4:11:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Steph, if you're not buying or selling something, then get off trademe. go away.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 4:42:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why don't you return to work to earn extra income?

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 5:26:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi steph, don't let all these losers bother you with their negative comments. you're saving some other poor sod on the message board from their abuse anyway! i think that we're ready for financial decision number one now - you may notice that the general abuse settles down when you give them something to think about. i hope it's a real dilemna though - and not just whether "mozart for babies" is a necessity or an extra.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 5:40:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

This blog could be fantastic if people see it for what it is, get past the fact that its an orange ad, easily blocked if you dont want to see it. i look foward to the ideas that will be shown, they will most certainly help a lot of people reading this.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 5:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If your husband got fired a lot of us would be more willing to help. At your income level you should be able to budget for youself, why are you asking us for help?

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 7:43:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

like many of us, we have to live within our means, I too dont like seeing it all down the page, I too have large family but hypothetically or not get rid of it.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 8:03:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

why not take a handout, if the government gives it take it. I started out 17 years ago with a 65,000 mortgage, and and income of around $65,000 - $70,000 it was enought to live well and cover the mortgage, insurance, rates, power and phone, hate to have that income today and a $211,000 mortgage, your life is owned by your mortgage, you have no option, stick the kid in care and go back to work, I can say I was at home for my kids a luxuary you will not get, so take the hand outs, make a living of TM whilst staying at home, work whilst your husbands home and at the end of 15 years your marriage is either in tatters, your kid is in a one parent family, or very strained because men cant handle the stress of it all best of luck. NZ is a very expensive place to live get use to it, we pay for the luxuary of it expensive housing and low wages

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 8:22:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

LOL, Cheers for changing the colour, it really was a pain.

I cant understand HOW or WHY your having difficulties, My husband gets $34,000 we have 2 kids and we manage, maybe you're just used to extravagant spending? $64,000 is a shitload of money, I think the problem is the fact you're so used to 2 wages, it takes a long time to adjust to just one. Good luck I guess...oh and it does feel silly talking to someone who doesn't exsist.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 9:51:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I must say well done with the changing of the orange ad and all.
This is an interesting idea, but as others have said it doesn't really relate to 'normal' NZers, so I'm not sure what the point of this is...
Do you not want us to learn from this, so we have to pay Sorted for relevant advice or something?

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 10:51:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph

Congratulations of your newish baby!

Yep, it is tough going from 2 incomes down to 1. What is the term of your morgage? If you are trying to pay it off fast then one thing that you need to do is to reduce your monthly repayments. There is just no way that you are going to be able to pay off that morgage in 8 years on one income with a young baby! Extend it out to 20 years or so - you can increase the monthly repayments in a few months/years when your combined income increases. Make sure that your bank doesn't try to charge you a redocumentation fee - they are getting enough out of you already in interest.

Oh, and don't forget to apply for your "Working for families" money, or whatever it is called (phone IRD). That should be about $50 per week, which will help a lot!

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 11:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

well I did a rough budget of what I think their expenses would be and although there are people saying that $68k is a lot of money in Auckland it doesnt go as far as it would in smaller cities

but lets wait to hear more

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 1:19:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Do you get paid for doing this Ad? If not go stick Sorted and go find a real job.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 6:28:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am utterly unimpressed with the two choices given for this weeks vote. 'The two options are clearly not equal - who on earth would seriously vote for the choice of the brother who "dabbles in shares".

It seems the intention is to steer people to financial planners. That was my first step several years ago. Fortunately I took none of their self-serving advice.

The choices are a joke, and unworthy of serious consideration. And this is my last post on this blog.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 8:34:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I do find it very difficult to understand why you need budget advice when your husband earns $68k (and yes I realise your "fictitious!"). I lived in Auckland with my partner & my son just on his wages ($36k) and we managed more than fine. Before baby we were earning $66k so it was a huge reduction in pay. The only thing I had was a CS card to help out with doctor's bills.
While we survived we weren't making progress so we moved to Waikato where my partner is now earning $41k and I can say honestly that we have a very rich living and STILL I don't work. I'm also expecting baby #2 so I find it very very hard to understand how you need budgeting advice.

If after this is all done you were to do another experiment such as this then maybe make it more realistic as far as wages are concerned.

As far as your situation is concerned, it is very hard to comment when there is no data available to see where all your money is going. For instance cars, insurance, monthly bills, mortgage payments, entertainment etc etc etc. It is very possible to live well & still stay at home and give your child a good start in life. My own life proves that.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 8:43:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

why on earth would you want others to sort out YOUR MONEY problems? waste of time and space. go back to work like all other ppl.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 8:46:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sigh. Get a part time job & put ficticious Caleb in daycare.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 9:35:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ignore comments such as you need to go out to work and staying at home with your child is a luxury. The luxury in this situation is a house or mortgage that you can not really afford (unless you do go out to work) and all the unecessary extras you spend (it does add up)... $60,000+ is a decent income. If you are struggling it is because you aren't living within your means - simple as that. Budgeting will show you where you can save and where you need to make changes. You do not simply have to go out to work and put your child in childcare because you're not living within your means. LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS is the solution!

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 9:44:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ignore comments such as go back to work and staying at home with your child is a luxury. The luxury in this situation is your house/mortgage and all the little unecessary extras that you will discover upon examining your spending and setting up a budget. Go to work seems like the simple solution - but if you want to be a SAHM then you have every right to be and shouldn't feel pressured to work. What people ignore is that first of all when you are having financial problems it is because YOU ARE NOT LIVING WITHIN YOUR MEANS! THE SOLUTION IS TO LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS - not put your child/ren in childcare and go out to work to you can fund a more lavish lifestyle than you can afford. Many women out there are SAHM's earning less that you with more children and they make it work. So this should give you hope! In saying this - part-time work may also be an option - but at least you won't have your child in full-time daycare...

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 2:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

ALL OF YOU PEOPLE WHO ARE STRUGGLING WITH THE FACT THEY HAVE $68K PER ANNUM WHEN YOU ONLY LIVE OFF HALF OF THAT - WOULD YOU BLARDY WELL GO BACK AND READ THE POSTS ABOUT DISPOSABLE INCOME!!!

Big DURRR!!!!!

Talk about ignorant!!! *grumble grumble*

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 2:53:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would go with the financial planners advice. It is only advice, it is up to you whether you take it or not.

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 5:32:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

What you have to realise is that there is no such thing as UNBIASED financial advice. They all have something to sell you. Find out what ruch people do and do the same - it has been proven to work for them.

 

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Saturday, April 01, 2006

Welcome to Steph's Blog

Hi I'm Steph.
I'm 32 and live with my husband, Matt and our wee boy Caleb who's 3-months old and counting. I’m a trained physio but I stopped work at the start of the year to have number one son.

My parental leave has just run out – and somehow I've ended up with the job of working out how we can survive on Matt’s salary with our delightful $211,000 mortgage!!!!

Over the next couple of months I'll be open to suggestions to help us work through our options. Financial expert Martin Hawes is also going to be lending us a hand. I have a funny feeling we’re going to have a few teething problems but I look forward to seeing what everyone thinks we should do…

236 Comments:

At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:30:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hello

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:32:00 AM, Anonymous ihatebarney said...

I applaud you trying to get out of financial difficulty but do you think you could do it without your picture in a giant orange box on the trade me message boards!!!!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:34:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hello

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:34:00 AM, Anonymous Riverside Property Maintenance said...

good luck but it can be done!!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:36:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you could run an auction to have your great stupid pic and fluoro orange box removed from Trade Me as its annoying everyone. I would pay you a couple of bucks for that!!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:43:00 AM, Anonymous mysticalnz said...

Please get rid of that stupid ad on trade me and for gods sake why orange. I don't want to see that everyday yuck.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:48:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

please do your advertising of your poor life elsewhere, we dont care. Hope your money worries only get worse!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:49:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hahahaha

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:50:00 AM, Blogger Poos&Wees said...

This is funny as.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:51:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should sell your house and move somewhere cheaper so not so much stress on you to go back to work with a young baby :-)

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:56:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

get over it trademe get paid to have it there duh

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:57:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ah Styph, just ignore those too ignorant to install a browser that blocks ads they don't want to see.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:57:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Go back to work - I'm going to have to after six months. It's unfair to put pressure on your man to have to provide on one wage if you have debt.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:58:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

please remove yourself from TM, your not wanted there....

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:59:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

get rid of the stupid ad taking up room on the message boards - its the opposite of advertising because now I am boycotting sorted.org. BYE BYE

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:00:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

BOYCOTT SORTED.ORG OR WHATEVER ITS CALLED UNTIL STEPH DIES A QUICK AND PAINLESS DEATH AWAY FROM THE TM MESSAGE BOARDS!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:01:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

BOYCOTT SORTED.ORG OR WHATEVER ITS CALLED UNTIL STEPH DIES A QUICK AND PAINLESS DEATH AWAY FROM THE TM MESSAGE BOARDS WHERE SHE IS TAKING UP VALUABLE SPACE!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sell your kid for medical experiments,divorce your hubby and take him for all you can get.Then go away.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

yes, i think you have over extended yourself - (financially that is!:-). Shamelessly advertising yourself on Trademe is just not on! Why not employ the services of a trained budgeter and then you can leave us Trademe peeps alone. ok? Lots of Love B

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

pleasssseeee hop off trademe and maybe do something productive..just not there,,huh?? huh??...:( pleasssseeeeee..with cherries on top:)

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:07:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

LOOK AT ALL THE STUPID WHINING TRADEME PEEPS WHO CANT BLOCK ADS HAHAHAHAHA

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:09:00 AM, Blogger sortme said...

Hi

Thanks for your comments, good and bad, but especially for the ones that actually comment on my situation. I'll take all comments, except anything that really crosses the line with language or abuse.

I thought my pic and ad was quite nice, but everyone has their own taste I guess. Sorry you don't like orange, I'll have a word to the designer : )

Thanks, Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:10:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Everyone knows solo mums will do anything for money. Go work at The Pelican Club a couple of days a week. Or become a stripper at Mermaids ...

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:14:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know phsios get good money.what does your hubby do? surely you saved hard b4 having the child? and if you didnt maybe you shouyld have thought about it? also get tyhat orange thing out my face its annoying

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:17:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Steph just wondering how you are able to reply if, as the blurb say, you and you family are fictitious??? I think that perhaps you are not steph at all but merely a sorted employee!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:17:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

go away

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:18:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Probably not the best idea to raise money by putting your box on trade em!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:19:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This add, It's a pain on TM. how rude can you be. Get a life.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:19:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph,

I really don't see how you cant sort yourself out financially. I do not like internet 'begging', in fact I think it's pathetic. As an educated 'adult' which I assume you are, or are supposed to be, why do you need others to decide what you should do in life? Are you going to start an advert as to whether you should shower today or not? Part of growing up is taking responsibility for your own actions and doing what you can to better yourself, surely you can do this on your own or are you that weak? Why don't you go back to work if things are that bad? More than likely you probably smoke, drink, buy lots of things your baby doesn't really need, have sky etc etc.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:20:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This add is a Pain in the Butt. How rude to put this on TM. What are you trading

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:20:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

what is your fictional husbands fictional income? What ages are you fictional children and do they do fictional extracurricular activities? perhaps you could get a fictional lotto ticket and hope you win

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:23:00 AM, Anonymous J said...

Good Luck In your Future decisions Steph! BTW...May I suggest Hot Pink for the colour just to annoy those who complained! LOL

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:23:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is great, i will look forward to reading the blog!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:24:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is a really, REALLY bad marketing research exercise.
If you do need to conduct some sort of experimental research design, try not to do it in such a way that it gets peoples backs up like this, as with all the angry attitudes your research objecves will ultimately not be addressed,
Good idea, great randomised selection techniques and im sure that many T.M memers fit your target market but your execution of research? Very Very poor

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:24:00 AM, Anonymous nic said...

Hi, Good Luck sorting your finances out. I just wonder, when you took out your mortgage did you assess whether the payments would be sustainable once you started a family and have your bank worked with you to reduce your payments?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:26:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is a really, REALLY bad marketing research exercise.
If you do need to conduct some sort of experimental research design, try not to do it in such a way that it gets peoples backs up like this, as with all the angry attitudes your research objecves will ultimately not be addressed,
Good idea, great randomised selection techniques and im sure that many T.M memers fit your target market but your execution of research? Very Very poor

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:27:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Badly Marketing Resaerch thats all this is

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:27:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This post has been removed by a blog administrator.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:28:00 AM, Blogger sortme said...

Hi

We're not making money from the Trade Me ad :) and we're not asking for money from you either - there's no 'Donate Now' button haha.

Sorry if you don't like what I'm doing, just trying to get a handle on the family finances. I figure if I share what the problems are, see what people reckon and get some input from a financial expert maybe everyone will come out with a better idea on how to get more 'money' from their money.

Thx, Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:29:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

why have a child if you can't afford it?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:30:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i am sure that you will have teething probs as no doubt they have all been made up to factitiously challenge your fictitious budgeting skills

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:30:00 AM, Blogger nottellingyouok said...

In reply to the above posters comments, there is such a thing as asking for help. I don't see this as internet "begging". Get a grip, she is trying to sort herself out.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:32:00 AM, Blogger J said...

Hi Steph, I wondered what all the hype was about this 'Steph' person and now I know. Good Luck with your future decisions and just to annoy all those who complained & made nasty comments about the Orange Ad Box..May I suggest Hot Pink! LOL

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:35:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi again Steph,

I'm sorry but you didn't answer me. Do you smoke? drink? have sky tv? are you buying your baby lots of things he doesn't need? Like I said, as an adult I think you should be able to sort yourself out without the help of the public, a budget advisor yes, but I don't see why you have to be so public about it. MANY of us have had to adjust to one income because we've started a family.
Even on two incomes, what you should NEVER EVER DO is rely on both! Your situation is of your own doing. I do hope your child isn't decked out in all the latest and greatest brands and outfits, that goes with yourself and your partner as well.
Surely your husband doesn't earn THAT little that you can't afford to survive on the basics and on a budget? If he did earn that little, there is always family assistance, I assume you've looked at that option?
Also, is there not the option of returning back to full time work or at least part time work while your husband watches the baby.

Look forward to your response

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:36:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Christ I have my own money problems. I don't need that damn ad in my face reminding me about it every time I visit trade me.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:38:00 AM, Blogger J said...

Geez People, Alot of Women have Babies and cant afford it! There is always a way to get by in the end. You never hear of anyone saying Im going to have Babies now that I can afford it! I mainly hear of Families who have A baby and all is fine for a little while but then complaints of not being able to afford this and that afterwards,Its common and quite normal.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:38:00 AM, Blogger Mr said...

As you have not given any indication as to what income you are actually receiving, you can't really be expecting any sensible comments

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:45:00 AM, Blogger Mr said...

You have not said what your icome is so how can you expext any practicle suggestions

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:46:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a joke... This is pathetic

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:50:00 AM, Blogger dabounty said...

someone on TM MB suggested you were actually 'Trish'. is this so? also can you get of our MB,your hogging the space. I also heard you were part of Stepfdany Church,are you really the devil??
please leave the MB.thanks

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:50:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph
Thanx 4 a stimulating start to April Fools day 2006. I hope 2 continue being part of your dilemma/solutions plan over the next 8 weeks. No doubt the bright orange advert in our face will keep everyone in the picture and the voting may be a hoot 2. TM/Fairfax & Sorted have scored an A++++ hit with this method of helping us all. C over the top & fun-luvn reaction to advertisement last night. Cheers

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:56:00 AM, Blogger dabounty said...

If you have probs..just do what we all do & get a TM account,what makes you think you can hog this space??please go away & leave TM mb for real probs.Ta,

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:56:00 AM, Blogger Carla said...

Hi Steph

Maybe you can find some work you can do for home, living in Grey Lynn you are in a great position to access Auckland City businesses, so many of them need to source outside contracts for things like typing, stuffing envelopes, etc, kind of boring tasks, but if you get paid for it then why not?

the other thing i can suggest, is look at your weekly food bill, we cut ours in half almost by buying fruit and vege from the fruit and vege shop, meat from the butchery, nappies from bulk nappy stores like diapers express and making meal plans in advance so we knew exactly what to buy to have enough food to last the week.

Good luck :) i will be keeping an eye on you!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:56:00 AM, Blogger dabounty said...

If you have probs..just do what we all do & get a TM account,what makes you think you can hog this space??please go away & leave TM mb for real probs.Ta,

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:57:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sell your laptop and buy a cheap PC Yeah y0!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:58:00 AM, Blogger sortme said...

Hi

I'll try an answer the questions as they come in.

Matt (husband) is a graphic designer (I'll talk to him about the orange ad okay?) and is now on $68k a year.

That's more than he's ever earned before and we thought it would be heaps. We did plan to have Caleb, and saved for it etc.

We can talk to the bank and work out what to do with the mortgage - we have to refix our finance soon anyway.

We don't smoke, aren't down the pub every night and since Caleb is only 3 months latest brands isn't really the issue.

I will (do?) consider going back to work an option. If anyone has got some experience on that lmk, having a little baby has totally changed everything for us. So I'm not sure what to think now.

Thx, Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 11:58:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph
Congrats on your baby,I think it is more wanting to maintain a life financially that you had before the baby.There maybe ways to cut back and if not there are options ie porse,kidstart which mean still there for baby,part time work at nights when hubby is at home.I feel you feeling this at No1 child try having 3 and we still manage to give them what they need

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:00:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks for supplying that info steph.

68k a year?? that IS heaps! I can't understand how you are unable to cope on that. My partner earns 20k less than that, I also have a young child but we actually live VERY comfortably on that. We also live in Auckland.

Why is it that you struggle to make 'ends meat'?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:02:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Um, "Steph" I can't believe you are trying to reply to these. Everyone knows you're not a real person. I'd just give up if I was you.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:02:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Stopping at No1 will stop these problems for you and then you can go back to life you were used to or is it that having a baby seemed fun and now reality has set in

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:04:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This isn't even a real family this whole thing is a fake and this ad is only found on trade me (read the top in orange) why don't you go and annoy someone else and leave us alone.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:06:00 PM, Blogger sortme said...

Hey Carla

Thanks for the ideas. I have to do a proper budget and see what we spend on food.

When we were both working it was easy to just grab something for dinner every night, and we probably spent heaps doing that. Now I guess I should plan to do a proper shop for meals! :) There are 3 supermarkets within walking distance of home, so I should make the most of that seeing as we're living central.

I hadn't thought so much about part time work either, just whether to go back fulltime or not. I'll see what's out there and talk it over with Matt.

Thanks again, Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:10:00 PM, Blogger sortme said...

Should I not try and answer these? If people are going to make an effort to get involved, I'm going to answer as much as I can - although I can't be here every minute!

Steph.

PS. I'm not Trish, and I'm not the Devil.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:10:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Stephanie,

What are you financial obligations? What are your weekly(?) mortgage repayments and what other debts do you have? I would kill to have an income of 68k to be honest, I'd be swimming in money if my partner earnt that much!

What kind of bills do you have? Do you have a meter read from your power provider every month? How much is on your phone bill? How much is your internet bill? How much do you spend weekly on groceries?

I also buy nappies online, in fact I bought around 140 nappies at babyonline.co.nz for $45 or there abouts. Thats basically a months worth or more of nappies!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:16:00 PM, Anonymous Petal said...

April Fool!!!!!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:17:00 PM, Blogger sortme said...

Hi

I know $68k is pretty good. Its not that we 'can't cope', and we didn't think having a kid would be easy or want to live like we did when we were 25 or anything.

Its just that everything seems more serious now, Matt is working like a dog to earn the $68k and I've got to sort everything out at home and with the money. And if I make a mistake or we do get into trouble with the mortgage or whatever, then there's no easy way out - I can't just get a job at the drop of a hat now, or I could I suppose if I put Caleb into daycare or whatever, but that costs money and I don't want to do it just because I didn't think about what I was doing.

That make sense?

Thanks for your comments and thoughts. Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:21:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah "Steph" we know you are not real. I can't believe you are continuing this on with all your replies! It has created publicity for sorted.org but nobody is going to bother checking out more info. Sorry mate.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:22:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Stephanie,

We can't comment on your financial situation unless we know the specific 'ins and outs' and what your expenses are.

*Do you get paid weekly or fortnightly?
*Are you recieving any family assistance?
*What is your monthly power bill?
*What is your monthly phone bill?
*How much do you spend on groceries per week (including baby goods)
*Do you have any extra curricular activities that are costing you money?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:27:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph,

If you're interested maybe you could look at childcare through PORSE or something similar - that way you could make a little bit of money looking after a baby maybe a similar age to your wee one so he has a playmate AND you would be able to stay at home. :)

Good luck!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:27:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

what about saving your self an average of $3000 a year and use cloth nappies, and have you got a spare room you can maybe rent out??

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:29:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi there steph, this is just an idea but seeing as you are a trained physio.
have u looked into doing that at home when baby is asleep just to earn a bit of extra money on the side.
ignore those silly ppl, i personally think you are doign a good thing, stay home and be with your baby, it is worth it, espically when he does all his first things.
hugs to you and your family and good luck

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:37:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

wow, arent people just so rude!

Hi again Steph, i understand how hard it is to leave your bub, hes only 3 months old and the first year of bubs life is so important, for many years you and your husband have been living it up on 2 incomes, only to drop pretty quickly down to one, even though it is a substantial income its still a bit of a shock and living within your new means is a learned behaviour, good on you for getting a budget drawn up, always a great first step, but dont forget also to put a little money away each week "just in case" its very important to do that, unexpected car repairs, rates, water bills etc cost a tonne and if you havent taken them into consideration they can really bite you in the bum!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi there
I am glad you are trying to get out of your financial situation, and i am sure there are 3million other who are just like you.
I live day to day with a very sick partner, can't afford my own house, have 2 girls to raise, one in which is getting married this month (and can't even afford a decent dress to attend her wedding)
I don't know why your mortgage is so high, but maybe you should sell and get a cheaper mortgage.
There are more people worse off than you. I wish you luck in what ever you decided to do. I am trying to set up my own business( as i am sick of being on the benefit) (website) you could try this. I am doing it all myself and it isn't costing me a thing (just my time)oops as long as you have computing skils you should be right.
Cheers

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:40:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hahaha $3000 on nappies a year? DON'T OVEREXAGGERATE MATE! If you bought the dryups nappies online for $45, each box lasts a year so that's only $500-$600 a year on nappies so don't be silly you idiot saying $3k on nappies a year!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:45:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Good luck Steph... I cant believe how negative people are...

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 12:54:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, it's now confirmed that Trade Me is full of uneducated, simple people with no lives and who can't read. Obviously don't understand what "fictitious life" means.....it's a make-believe situation people! *sigh* And furthermore if they had brains they'd understand what advertising was and why your lovely face adorns the messageboard pages.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:04:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph,

Why don't you invest in some cloth nappies? You would save so much money. Sure, the outlay can be expensive, but once you have them that's it. Plus if you are plannning on having more babies you won't need to spend any money on nappies. Just a thought.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:08:00 PM, Blogger sortme said...

Hi Everyone

I'll get together some more detailed info and try and show you how our budget is coming together.

You are right in that we need to look at the "specific ins and outs", and see where the money is actually going. I think getting the bills and bank statements together is a good practical first step. So I'll do that and maybe things will feel more under control.

There are some really helpful ideas coming through, thanks heaps, I'll be back when I've got my head around everything.

Thanks, Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:12:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hello steph - I love the orange BTW - gosh what a bunch of whingers they are aye?.....good on U for trying to make ends meet ....what ever U do dont sell your house!!!! get rid of all other debt IE:cars ...things U dont need ...thats sucking all the money up....sell things on trade me?......can U make any thing?.....
is your morgage over 30 yrs? - if not extend it out to the max while your at home?
hope this helps ....IF i think of any thing else I will post - baylee12 [trademe member name]

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:30:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi....68k is a lot of money, we are a family of 6, two adults and 4 kiddies, 2 are in nappies and we survive on $35k and a morg of $200K, so whats your problem????

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:35:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

goodluck,can be done

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:41:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi. What sort of cars do you have? If you have two sflash cars you will save heeps by selling boath and buying a corrola or something. and by not haveing a second car you will save upwards of 5k a year. and you will get fit to.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:41:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Steph or whoever this is lol

I know this is a joke but obviously everyone else in here is taking this orange image too serious.
Did you put this on tm to start these arguments??? or are you just bored.
Sorry just had to say that.
I know its a joke but no one else seems to think it is. Not funny anymore now steph as you can see some of the remarks that have been given to you.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:46:00 PM, Blogger Me said...

You have got to be kidding!!!! My husband earns half of what you say your husband does and we have 3 children and can manage to make ends meet. I can not understand people saying poor me, we have no money and they earn twice as much as us. You do not need to go back to work to survive, you need to budget. I hope all goes well for you, but come on, there are people in worse situations than yours and they managet to get by without having to resort to stunts such as this.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:51:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

happy April 1st.Now can we get rid of this crap.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:52:00 PM, Anonymous Mum of One said...

Firstly, I can't believe just how rude people are, who do you think you are, sitting comfortably in your home choosing to put people down, when they are out there trying to do something for themselves! All I can say is "Don't throw stones when you live in glass houses", we could all learn from "Steph" and her family, I myself am in a similar situation, luckily not in Auckland, but hubby is on a similar wage and we have a wee girl of 10months. I find it interesting to see how she manages. For those who are commenting on the cost of nappies, I think the $3000 was an estimate of childhood to toddlerhood, but we use modern cloth nappies (www.snazzipants.co.nz) which are the best. I think disposables are a waste of money and especially for mums who aren't working, cloth are a great alternative. I look forward to following Stephs blog and gleaning from it many ideas to use day to day. Well done ?Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:55:00 PM, Anonymous Sarah Holloway said...

People are SO mean, GO STEPH!!!!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:55:00 PM, Blogger Mcduck5 said...

I think the problem you are haveing is not liveing on the 68 k, it is going from what was probebly 120k per year + to the 68. good luck and posibly citizens advice burow for bugeting. it is hard to go from being abel to jrab it and buy it to not haveing the cash. if there is room at your house keep a garden. also with the morgage, have your pay put into that and pay bills etc out of the morgage account. you will pay it off a lot faster.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:55:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

happy April 1st YAAAAAWN

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 1:59:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

get rid of the stupid thing on trade me!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 2:03:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don’t even care what this person is doing or trying to do what irks me is the comments made from the very same trademe people that spend all there time on the message board whining & carrying on like there is no light at the end of there roads. They all ask pathetic questions, no one has any common sense so it seems on the forums at all with all the stupid questions. What’s so different about what this lady is doing? nothing other than she’s smart & has got everyone’s attention with the way she has gone about it. Trademe Forum Users why don’t you take a look at yourselves before judging others your all a bunch of sad feeble people who cry when something happens to your kids because you were too busy posting on a forum. Get yourselves off the chair, turn the computer off & be the parents you should all be for those that don’t have kids but pick on the one’s that do you are just as pathetic; or the one’s starting topics of (help me I’m broke) or (Help me get the operation for my child) all a load of crap that others fall for & end up shelving out dollars to those with a sad story. Hell the list is bad you only have to skim through the forums to see what garbage is being posted & it’s all about attention. Gee people get off the computers & get a life, have you no friends, no shame, nothing in your lives other than bitching & judging others. What’s the matter someone jealous because this chick had the brains to do something that you all already do just on a higher scale. Ohhh god what a waste of breath & energy typing to you all. GET LIVES FOR GOD SAKES!!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 2:22:00 PM, Blogger Manukarose said...

Hi it's Manukarose1 here ... my gripe is simple and it's NOT about the ad. It's that the Gov. and banks portraying that owning your home at cut-throat costs to the owner, is the be all end all. My opinion is this and it's not meant to be rude - (yes I know you are fictitious) - but if everyone believes the banks little sales pitches and get themselves into debt to the point where the needs of the family are dwindled to nothing, then perhaps any sound advice given on here would not be heeded anyway.

The idea is to handle your finances BEFORE they handle you. I just think today's current financial climate does not portray the same rosy sunshiny ads the banks do. It is they who own your house and it is THEY who are making money out of you. My only piece of advice is - to simplify your life - write a list of needs NOT WANTS and stick to those first - then the wants can be taken care of with any surplus money.

GL in your market research.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 2:23:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

do you think you could ask your boss to have someone spell "mortgage" correctly on the link at the top of the page. thanks.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 2:24:00 PM, Blogger Manukarose said...

Just a little afterthought - Can you set up a little something at home? Be with the children while helping with Physio - like a hair salon? Just food for thought - Manukarose xxx

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 2:35:00 PM, Anonymous Lets-Swing said...

Hey Steff! What does your husband look like? Are you guys into SWINGING? Would you like to hook up with me and my man for some fun nights together *wink*?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 2:47:00 PM, Anonymous angie said...

well good on ya for sorting it out..but why does it have to take up all the room on our message board? ..also you get 68k a year? ..try 25-30k 3 adults 3 kids.and we get by..just but we do..you just have to adjust your lifestyle

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 3:11:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a question lol
What is this create a link at the bottom of all the messages please?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 3:31:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's about time that a lot of you grew up. How pathetic are you to take the micky out of this woman and her family! They are people, and have their own feelings.
I think she is doing what all couples should be doing, that is being at home with their new baby!

How many of you have worked with children the same age that are in child care centres from 7am to 6pm?
No routines, unsettled, sick etc.
The young ones are hard work, and they need to be at home with their mum, and breast milk.

Steph or whoever you are, good luck in your quest.
By what your baby needs to be comfortable and work or stay at home, as you feel comfortable, just make sure your man also has some respect.

You can easily cut costs, such as bulk buying items when on special, paying bills annually if you can afford, buying fruit and vege at fruit and vege shops not supermarket, reusing paper, plastics etc, buying nappies in bulk, or using cloth (moderns are easy to use), sharing your work load with other mothers, ie you look after joe bloggs child one day and she yours the next.
walk to local shops at bubs sleep time, (bubs in pram) do a small shop, bake foods and put into freezer, buy toys in school holiday school sales, buy on HP only when int free terms, or use layby and pay minimums in time frame given.

just a few ideas, and ingore the Trademe Nanas, there are some on there who ask for $$ or say how hard up they are, and they are on the message boards, all day long, so obviously not working.

Finally, Remember your lifestyle and child are as expensive as you let it. :o)

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 3:56:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a stupid idea this is. Place an advert on the trade me website that pisses off everyone and then allow everyone to abuse you on this website and anonymously too.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 3:59:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

What is it with you people, get over yourselves and quit being so god damn mean, TRADEME stuck her there if you have a problem with it take it up with them..man some people have nothing better to do then be arseW((pes.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:03:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

To be really honest we make 70k a year and we have 3 kids we are what we would call well off we dont want for anything our kids have way more than what they should yes we have bills so I cant understand why you would be worried about money at all dont mean to be rude but this advise that is being given by the people here should really be going to a family of several kids with an income of under 40k someone who really needs help because from what I have read you dont need any at all

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:03:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

GET OVER YOURSELVES tm users ffs get a life, some of you are so mean, you moan and gripe about your sucky lives daily on the message boards yet you come here and dog her...shame on you lot...get a life.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:12:00 PM, Blogger angelcake said...

Hello Steph,
I think you will find most of the losers that have posted on here with smart comments are on trademe and are childish two year olds with nothing better to do, so really don't pay any attention to them as the only way they can fit in and be noticed is to be smart and rude and arrogant and childish otherwise no one will bat an eyelid at them or their sad twisted lives as they are so sad and a waste of space on this earth, hell is more for them dancing with the devil, if you go on to trademe you will spot them easily as they will have the same attitude as here, but not anonymous, I wish you all the best with your situation i would suggest looking for a job around your area to bring in a bit of money, if your child is not in care perhaps a at home caregiver like barnardoes which is cheaper than a daycare centre or see about a childcare subsidy. good luck.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:19:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

With a smile like your's you could make a fortune and work from home. Sex sell as they say. Now bugger off and stop cluttering up our message board.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:20:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

With a smile like your's you could make a fortune and work from home. Sex sell as they say. Now bugger off and stop cluttering up our message board.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:25:00 PM, Anonymous crystalmatrix said...

Hi Steph
What are your Home loan repayments per week/fortnight/month etc? It is hard to offer advice when no figures are given, Also wandering why Get Sorted would use someone in their hypothetical blog that earns ABOVE the average wage in New Zealand, I would have felt better helping someone on half your income with 4 kids, you know someone who is "REAL" and could actually benefit from the advice. Therefore I think this whole excercise is a waste of time. I can think of 10 families off hand in my area alone who would have a "REAL" need for advice. This whole thing makes me sad :(

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:29:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sex sells. With a smile like your's you could make a fortune and work from home at the same time. Now bugger off and stop cluttering up our message board.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 4:33:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

So you say this is a ficticious family. So basically you are pretending to be someone your not. Unfortunately this is against blogspots terms of services and I urge everyone to make a complaint with Blogspot about this. The terms clearly state: (you must not) (c) impersonate any person or entity, including, but not limited to, a Pyra official, forum leader, guide or host, or falsely state or otherwise misrepresent your affiliation with a person or entity;

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 5:10:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

My goodness - hello people - this is "fictitious" - think the Sorted people have done a great marketing promo. Only gripe I have is that the income is very high ... I'm a single parent of 2 living on less than 30K and doing very well thankyou, as I have been for 10 years - not "struggling" at all. I think perhaps the marketing team need to "get real" and come up with someone who is really struggling ... personally I have no sympathy at all for "Steph" .. sorry.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 5:19:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, it makes you realise how hard some families are doing it! It would be a shock if you were on a double income well over 100K and then had to go down to 68,000 I suppose, because you would get used to the luxuries. I would do the budget on this website (hypothetically) and see where you could cut back. Work would be out the question for a while, the child is still very young. Are we going to get the details of a budget, bills etc in the coming weeks? Interesting experiment...

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 5:44:00 PM, Anonymous Fake said...

Since you are a fictitious family living a hypothetical life (re-read the orange box at the top of this page), I think Monopoly money should see you buying a few more properties and getting out of jail free.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 5:52:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

SortMe? Are you the developer of the SortMe software that I use to manage TM auctions.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 5:53:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you weren't hypothetical, I'd say good on you! You can afford to be at home with your child, and that's so much fun, and so good for everyone. As long as you can afford to eat and pay the bills, and you are prepared to go without the frills (overseas trips, a new SUV) you'll look back and be really glad you did this.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 5:55:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hello

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 6:18:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well it seem that steph is not only fictional, but the people giving her advice ma also be fictional too. Sorted, its plainly dumb to ask people to help a fictional character, especially one that appears as well off sas"Steph" I think many trademe users are trying to make ends meet on much less than this fictional family, which actually makes the whole scenario quite offensive

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 6:49:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why target the Trade Me message board posters for this campaign, is it because it is full of winners or losers?. I'm off to Zillion now.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 6:55:00 PM, Anonymous SavageHurricane said...

Ummm, duh... why didn't you figure out how you were going to pay the mortgage on one income before you gave up your job to have number one son???

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 7:10:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hello,hello,

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 7:14:00 PM, Anonymous zillion said...

good luck Steph.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 7:53:00 PM, Anonymous Bi-Curious said...

Hey there Steph :) I think your a bit of a babe! Are you bi-curious at all? I am and would really love to have my first girl on girl experience with you! Your hubby can watch of course ;) Look forward to your reply. BTW - to **LetsSwing** Im interested in the swinging thing :) Maybe me and steph could come over? LOLOLOL

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 7:57:00 PM, Anonymous Im-Horny said...

Why dont you ANONYMOUS peepholes put a name to your post? Some of you ANONYMOUS peepholes are p!$$ing me off and i want to tell you so, but how the hell are we supposed to tell you to shut ya face, when your name is ANONYMOUS like the other 80! Geezzz.. stop hiding and get your dum names out on the boards or SHUDDUP!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 8:06:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Once upon a time..... but really, is Matt going to have a nervous breakdown at having to take on the family's financial burden on his own, drink too much, take drugs, have a breakdown and walk out??? I think this will be a happily ever after scenario for the scriptwriters. Lame idea guys!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 8:41:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Silly you for having a $200k loan and then leaving work ,,, down grade to a caravan park or shift back home to the inlaws garage ..

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:25:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is Caleb breastfed? If so, that will save you a ton of money! He's young enough that if not, you can probably relactate. I hope you don't spend $3000 a year on nappies, only a hypothetical person would do that ;-)

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:31:00 PM, Anonymous pete88 said...

Hi Steph,
Was just wondering if you shave under your arms ???
Cheers Pete

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:32:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are more annoying than the Briscoes lady...............if you insist on being on Trade Me, why don't you sell your junk like the rest of us and make money. Better still - sell the baby.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:34:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sorted, I congratulate you on trying to educate the masses but a lot of posters on here can't fathom that this is a hypothetical situation...

It's the same people that think actors are the same as their characters.

I would suggest that the $68,000 income figure is too high for people that struggle to relate to - so who exactly are you targeting?

People that really need the advice would be on something like $38,000.

Good luck with your campaign!

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe if you hadn't paid to stick your ad in the TM message boards you wouldn't be in such debt?

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:52:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you're really a person, Steph, hold an auction on TradeMe to get rid of that awful banner ad.
You'd be SORTED for life then.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:52:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yep, on an income like that I would have bought two houses by now. Hypothetically, not smoking, drinking, and putting babies in gold plated nappies would be a good place to start! I can't fathom how someone can be struggling on an income that high, with one child. I guess a lot of people have real trouble seperating 'neccessities' from 'luxuries'.

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 9:55:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

and the point of this whole steph-thing is??????

 
At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:01:00 PM, Anonymous JB said...

In this fictitious situation...

Fix your mortgage
(which is a relatively small mortgage for Auckland) of $211,000 for 5 years at approx 8%pa, with monthly repayments of $1549pm (assuming a 30 year term).
If your fictitious husband gets paid fortnightly, set up an auto payment to pay your mortgage fortnightly also (this will cut approx 5 years off your mortgage over a 30 year term!).

So... hubby gets approx $1600 in the hand (after tax of 39%?) a fortnight, mortgage $775), leaving $825 to pay bills, insurance etc & live.

Write out ALL of your expenses:
RATES, INSURANCES, REGO/S, TELEPHONE, GAS, POWER, WATER etc.
Work out the annual figure then work out the fortnight or monthly figure. Aim to put that amount away each fortnight/month into an 'expense' account. So when the bills come in, there should be sufficient funds to pay it in full & ontime. Alternatively, you can set up an auto payment to pay most of these on a fortnightly or monthly basis. Rembembering that extra fees may be incurred if you pay month by month.

Meal plan
Like a previous poster suggested, again do on a month or fortnight basis, depending on fictitious hubbys pay cycle. Do ONE grocery shop at the beginning of the period and get all you need. And stick to a strict food budget. This will stop you spending another $50 each visit, when you only need to spend $10 for something forgotten. If you need more milk & bread get it from the dairy or service station, OR go without your plastic cards, and with only sufficient cash to pay for those goods needed!
This will also make mealtime a breeze, and you'll feel super organised!
or you could invest in a bigger freezer and freeze your milk & bread! Forget buying luxuries, such as fizzy, chips or chocolate!

Grow your own produce
If you have a back yard, plant a vege patch & reap the rewards of having super fresh veges at a f