Friday, April 07, 2006

Debt dilemma

Hi Everyone

We've talked to Martin Hawes about our budget, our debt and our current dilemma. He said:

Steph

The answer to your credit card question is fairly straight forward, but first, there is another option. You could as I suggested have a revolving credit facility, pay your emergency funds into it and then pay your bills from it (including that credit card bill). This way your savings and any other money that you have will be working as hard as it can by reducing interest on a daily basis (instead of gaining that little bit of after tax interest your savings are currently earning).

You’ve decided not to go ahead with that because you say you lack the discipline to resist the temptation of credit facilities (you told me that Matt is a tiger with the credit card –what is his version of this?).

Anyway – no revolving credit – fair enough, a good call in the circumstances.

So I do think you should pay the credit card bill with your emergency savings as soon as you can. You will be paying a horrendous interest rate on the credit card (my latest statement says 19.75%) – whatever it is, it will be much higher than the after tax interest earned on your savings at the bank.

I’d also really love you to cut up that credit card, but unfortunately I think that you had better keep it (but not in Matt’s wallet!). When you have paid off the credit card you will have only $700 of emergency money left (not a lot to cover illness, redundancy, leaking roof etc). If something bad happens you may need to draw out cash on the credit card. I really hope this does not happen but an unused credit card left in the bottom drawer could be a life saver. Just make sure that you do not open that bottom drawer unless you really, really need to.

Martin

Revolving credit? My head's spinning enough as it is! haha.

So pay off the credit card? Comments below seem to agree, but 1/3 of the votes so far say keep the emergency fund. I hate to see that cash cushion go, especially since with our budget we're not going to get it back in a hurry. But we'll go with whatever the voting says over the next wee while.

Thoughts anyone? Steph.

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At Friday, April 07, 2006 11:40:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with posters so far that say "pay off the credit card and then put your usual minimum credit payments back into your emergency fund so it gets topped up again". I know it feels sooooooo important to have that emergency buffer, but in the end you're losing money way faster on your interest payments on your credit card. I think if you did the sums you'd find it wouldn't take long to restock your emergency fund at all.

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 12:05:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Agree with Martins advice excpet for keeping it in the bottom draw. Give it to the bank. Much safer there. Not only temptation to spend it but the first place burglars through is your bottom drawer.

Also the 1/3 of votes who say don't pay off your credit card and keep the savings, well one doesn't have to think to hard to wonder aloud how New Zealand has become a nation of debt. Overextending themselves on credit with money they don't have. Why isn't this subject taught in schools? In blows me away how badly educated NZer's are financially! You only have to read the trademe messageboard for a snapshot of the financially uneducated. Mind you it seems common sense doesn't even prevail on the message boards!

As always, your humble commentator. PS Do I get an award for being the best contributor to your blog???

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 2:13:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you should definately pay off the credit card. the high interest charges alone make it a nightmare. as a previous poster said, you can always add the money you would have paid monthly on your card to your already in place emergency fund deposit. good on you for steering clear of the revolving credit. it's too big a temptation to rack up more debt. If you must use credit, only go with interest free terms, pay a deposit towards the debt & always pay more than the minimum payment due. it also has the added spin-off of giving you a good credit rating.

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 2:47:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I also agree with paying off your credit card debt with your emergency fund. A credit card can cause an unhealthy cycle of spending the banks money (which, of course they WANT you to do) with horrendous interest costs. Speak to your husband about his wayward way of using the card, or take it off him. Even better, pay off the debt and close the account. That way neither you or hubby are tempted to use it (the banks will happily give it back to you at almost a moments notice!) I also applaud you on turning down the revolving credit facility (again, the benefits of having such a facility is really only to those who are disciplined...). Once the debt is repaid, you may be able to start saving again!?

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 4:39:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

I agree to pay off the credit card too, putting your minimum credit payments back into your emergancy fund is a great idea and it will get you back to where you were before in no time. we had huge issues with our CC (esp mine, im crap at credit) and ended up cutting it up! no more allowed for me!

your doing well, it is a lot for you to get your head around, but once you start its actually really fun and seeing the money you save is a fantastic reward :)

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 11:18:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is foolish to owe money on a credit card, which is high interest, if you have money sitting around in an emergency fund. With no emergency fund temporarily you can still rely on the credit card if something comes up. In the meantime - save on the interest!

 
At Saturday, April 08, 2006 5:02:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pay the credit card off then get an icecream container, fill it half full with water and freeze it plonk in your credit card fill it to the top with water and freeze again. so your card is encased in a big lump of ice. If you need to use your card you have it but in the time it takes to thaw it out hopefully it will give you enough time to rationally think of any better solutions other than using the card

 
At Sunday, April 09, 2006 3:07:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

How does anyone get into that amount of debt? By using a credit card.

Get your scissors & cut up the card.
Don't fall into the trap of living off future income.
Unless you happen to be psychic.

 

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Week 1, Question 2

Well, now we’ve got a budget together we can see that debt is sucking up a lot of our income.

We’re going to follow up the ‘biggie’ (our mortgage) soon, but in the meantime there’s the small matter of Matt’s credit card. It’s currently got $1800 owing on it and we’re only paying just over the minimum each month.

We might have an easy solution to this one, though. Our budget doesn’t show it, ‘cos we’re no longer putting any money into it, but we do have a $2500 savings fund for emergencies (in case the roof needs fixing, that sort of thing).

So what do you reckon? Should we pay off Matt’s credit card with our savings - and have one less debt to worry about - or keep all of our emergency fund for a rainy day?

Thx, Steph

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At Friday, April 07, 2006 8:53:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pay the debt off first. Tackle the debts with the highest interest first. Savings mean nothing if you have debt. eg. the interest you make off your savings might be 6% p/a but the interest you pay on your credit card will be approx 18% p/a and that is for purchases only, not cash advances that you would use in an emergency, where the interest is usually calculated daily. Once the credit card is paid off, return the card to the bank but keep the account open in case of an emergency. The payments that you would usually make on your credit card can then go into savings and once you are comfortable with the level of savings you have, you can cancel the credit card.

 

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Thursday, April 06, 2006

Budget blow out!

Hi Everyone

There have been a lot of comments from people who can't believe we'd 'struggle' on $68k. Well, I didn't think we'd be struggling either - but what I really can't believe is just how much we're over budget!!!.

We've put in our actual spending, or made reasonable guesses for some things, and loaded it into the Sorted Budget Calculator.

So anyway, here's the link to a screenshot of our results page.

Thx, Steph.

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At Friday, April 07, 2006 7:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you put it on your credit card, then make your minimum credit card payments back to your emergency fund, you will be better off. and, if you have an emergency in the meantime, you can take the emergency funds from your credit card (wont put you any further ahead, but its a risk you might have to take)

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 9:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK re your budget. Fist of all I can see you are paying approx $328 a month on a vehicle. That would mean you have quite a falshy vehicle. Step 1. Get rid of it. There are plenty of vehicles around for $2000 which may not be the flashest, but will serve your requirements to get from A to B. That reduces your defecit to $7863. Also your alcohol bill is astronomical. $100 a month is ridiculous. Take that out of the equation and you're down to $6,663. You still have an entertainment budget which can well be halved to $115 a month and include your alcohol in that which will still allow you to buy 4 bottles of wine a month and still have $60 odd to go to movies etc...now you are down to $5283. Your food bill is too high. You could easily spend $150 a week and still be very comfortable. That brings you to $603 defecit.You could either cancel your pay tv subscription or cancel your magazine subscription (keep one or the other) you must still have some pleasures in life. Stop buying gifts for people and start making them! Not only will it save you money, but people generally appreciate them so much more because you put more heart into them. It will keep you busy during the day too. It is important to keep some savings going so pay off the credit card and keep paying what you would have paid on the card into a savings account.

 
At Friday, April 07, 2006 5:12:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your grocery bill is excessive for 2 adults!
I too think $150pw is a more reasonable amount to be spending (incl toiletries, cleaning products etc). Save approx $4500

Like my first post, plant a vege patch(although this will take time to grow... you will reap the benefits of fresh produce at minimal cost).

Stop buying 'top shelf' brands, and start buying no-name brands which have similar quality at a more affordable price. And stop buying luxury/comfort foods.

Buy meat from a butchery, or when on sale at the supermarket, and produce from a green grocer, although it depends on their location, because petrol cost to get there may outweigh the savings.

Perhaps (I don't want to assume), you could look at how much you eat (most of us eat more than we need to). Serve smaller portions, and see your food go further. Rather than eating until your plate is clean, save left overs for lunch!?

Pay TV & newspaper/magazine subscriptions
You don't need these!
Save $1080
As nice as it is to have 40 odd channels to watch, you don't need to have SKY tv. If there is a rugby game hubby just has to watch, surely he has a mate who would happily have him over to enjoy the game with!? And your magazine and paper subscriptions - you can always read the news online (or watch it on free to air TV)? Besides, how do you find time to watch tv with a young bub in the house??

Cut back on alcohol!
to $30 - $60pm
Save $480
I know it can be hard, when work associates and friends can be demanding that you keep up your pre baby social life, but it is time to face reality - right now you just can't afford it. If you must, buy hubby one bottle of his poison a month, and tell him to make it last. And perhaps only indulge in one or two bottles of *cheapish* wine a month.

Limit your reccreational activities
to $30 - $60pm (?)
Save $2040!!
Instead of going out with friends for dinner, why not have a 'pot luck' dinner once or twice a month? That way you get to socialise, but without the restaurant prices (or having to pay for enough food and drink for everyone?).
If are are avid movie goers, go on a Tuesday night, or go once the 'no complimentaries' has been lifted from the movie, and use the shopper docket two-for-one savings coupon on the back of your grocery receipt.
If hubby is the kind of bloke who MUST go to the motor racing at Pukekohe, the rugby, the cricket and on fishing charters with the blokes, he may have to think again... or forfeit his alcohol allowance for a few months in order to afford it?? Fortunately, most men are pretty stubborn and will insist on going regardless of the fact they can't afford it... (even more so when they are the bread winners!).

Great idea about making your own presents!
I wouldn't have thought of that one!
But I think $660 is reasonable (no savings here sorry!)
Grandparents would love home-made calendars with a photo of your cherished bub on it, or fridge magnets (again with photos of bubs on them).
Suggest to your present expecting siblings, that you would rather do away with presents (only buy for nieces/nephews). But again, social pressures and expectations may call for you to oblige!

Instead of buying cool toys for your bub (which get used for a relatively short time then stored), check out a local toy library.

Car
I can only assume that the figure provided is the running cost of ONE car, plus insurance, rego & WOF costs. As looking at your insurance cost, it is very small (our contents insurance & car insurance is about that - without having house insurance as well)? If that is the case, not much you can do here.

You could down-grade (depending on what kind of vehicle you have), and use proceeds of the sale (after buying another), to further reduce your debts).(??)

Debts
Is this solely mortgage? If so, fix at approx 8%pa over 30 years ($1549pm) or 25 years ($1629) approx. If this debt is in fact just mortgage this will save you $6769pa approx!!)
(shop around, or enrol the help of a mortgage broker) to get you a good deal. There are many non-bank mortgage providers who offer competitive interest rates, as well as the mainstream banks. Most banks will penalise you for breaking a fixed loan, but sometimes it may be financially beneficial to pay the fee and re-fix or go elsewhere!

IF this figure also includes HPs or personal loans, consider rolling these into your mortgage BUT set them up for a 1-4 year term (if your financial institution will allow). Adding your $3K HP to your mortgage for 30 years turns into $8.3K debt over the life of the loan)! (assuming 8%pa).

Managing your money!
I suggest you set up three bank accounts
1. Day to day (food, petrol, entertainment, alcohol, travel (to work) etc)
2. Utilities and insurance
3. Misc (presents, holidays, house maintenance, medical, clothing etc).

That way you shouldn't blow your budget!

YOU CAN MAKE IT WORK... AND MAY FIND YOU STILL HAVE MONEY LEFT OVER FOR SAVINGS! or, can allow yourself a *slightly* larger budget on some items than I have suggested.

GOOD LUCK,
Jolene

 
At Monday, April 10, 2006 2:07:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok here are my suggestions:

Buy a car that is cheaper to run like more fuel efficient. If I lived in Auckland I would ride a motorbike to work instead of car and that way you could ride through a traffic jam and motorbikes are heaps cheaper to run. If you have more than one car get rid of one and save on registration, WOF and maintenance for more than one vehicle.
You are spending $240 on food cut this way back, when I was last flatting $180 fed 5 adults and 1 kid and I was buying brand name products too. Do whatever you can to keep yourself healthy and save heaps on medical costs. Read the paper at work or online instead of buying a paper the same may even be able to be done with magazines. Download your music for free instead of buying CD's you can also download movies so forget about renting out DVDs all the time. Last Christmas we didn't spend a huge amount on gifts in fact instead we had a $2 Christmas. This is a good idea if your children are too young or too old to enjoy Christmas, last year we all just bought $2 presents and had fun playing with them on Christmas day.
The final solution is if you have a spare room take on a boarder or a home stay student thats if you can handle having an extra person in the house.

 

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Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Comments feedback

Hi Everyone

I've given Matt a hurry up on helping me with the budget. Its a bit scary!!! I know everyone thinks $68k is heaps but... well, you'll see and then tell me where we're going wrong.

There's been some great stuff posted in the comments. I thought I'd bring out the stuff that struck a nerve with me and respond directly here. Thanks to those people that took the time to think about it and post something really smart. If I've missed something let me know, its not because I haven't read it, its because I haven't had time to respond.

Is the problem really debt repayment? Or is the problem that they don't know how to make their money work for them? I still think going to see a financial planner would be best.

It looks like mortgage and food are our biggest ticket items. Well, we bought in Grey Lynn a while ago, and we did it to be close to work. Now we want to stay here to be close to family, both our parents are in Auckland and with living right here we can get my Mum around to help with babysitting anytime - it's hard to keep her away sometimes! So we want to keep the house, I think.

At Saturday, April 01, 2006 10:01:09 PM, JB said...
In this fictitious situation...

Fix your mortgage
(which is a relatively small mortgage for Auckland) of $211,000 for 5 years at approx 8%pa, with monthly repayments of $1549pm (assuming a 30 year term).

Wow, okay, thanks for thinking that one through! Click the title link above or here to read the full comment on that. That is/was a great post. Quite a few other commenters (?) said things along those lines. I can't believe how much we spend on food when I added it up. As well as the mortgage we're going to tackle our grocery bill big time! But it looks like rather than one big problem to solve, it might be bunch of little things working together that make a difference?

Living in a big city such as Auckland means that cost of living is greater. Of course comparibly, incomes are greater. So while $68k may sound a lot to some of our rural dwellers, it is actually very easily spent in Auckland.

That might be it. There is quite a good cost comparison of Auckland versus elsewhere there. Can anyone tell me if it is really like that? Okay, so I knew it was expensive here (I didn't grow up in Auckland so I *do know* what the rest of the country is like btw!) but didn't think through how much it affects us day to day. Matt and my Mum would kill me if I even suggested moving though!

Anyway, thats it for now. Thx, Stph.

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At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 1:34:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Haha! Two of those comments you posted were from me! I'm the young mum (under thirty) who lives in Auckland too...Good to know that I'm on the right track (or at least pretend to know to be!). It shocks me how many people live with blinkers on! I've never paid any attention to the negative people because the only people who try to bring you down are the ones who are too afraid to try it themselves. Will continue to read Stephs blog with interest.

*does a wiggly dance back to her corner* :o)

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 1:40:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

PS. re living in Auckland versus living elsewhere. I have done both and found that I am still better off in Auckland as the incomes are much greater than anywhere else. There is also the variety of jobs which means you can walk out of one and into another. I know that those opportunities do not exist even in fairly large cities such as Tauranga. Count how many people live in Auckland and ask yourself, why are they all here? Hmmm.

Finally my last hint re your food shopping. Do it over the internet. Woolworths are particulary good. You can cherrypick (if you aren't brand loyal) on the specials page. It also means you can spend up to what you have budgeted for and not a cent over. Stops impulse buying and even better, you save yourself a good hour because they pick it, pack it and deliver it to your door. I can't recommend it highly enough!

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 1:44:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh sorry, one last thing from me. Assuming your mortgage payments are $387 a week, I highly doubt you would be better off renting. I don't know Grey Lynn market rent but I think I can safely assume the rent would be higher than your current mortgage payments. You were lucky you bought a few years ago. That house is going to be your making! The capital gains on it must be amazing! Ok seriously this time I am stopping!

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 4:54:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm bored now. Short attention span. You should cheat on your husband or something.

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 8:56:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

"It looks like mortgage and food are our biggest ticket items."

Watch your power bill as well. Now that the days are getting shorter & colder you will really notice that you are paying heaps more than you used to pre-baby. (1) You are at home a lot more, and (2) you need to keep the house warmer.

 

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Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Advice about advice!

Hi Everyone

Okay, so talking to my brother seemed like a good idea at the time. I'll take it from you guys that its not.

Some of the comments below reckon that a financial planner is a good idea, some say a waste of money, and that we should check out the free budgeting services. I guess there are more than just the two options (brother or planner) to consider on this one. Everyone does seem to agree that doing a proper budget and a getting control of the mortgage are our two biggest/best things to do.

Anyway, I mentioned we had Martin Hawes looking at what we're doing - not as our financial planner, but as a financial expert who can help explain some of the issues. This is what he's said so far:

Steph,

Brothers-in-law (along with cousins, kindly uncles and the likes) have cost more people more money than just about anything that I know. You need advice – good advice.

Your main issue is your $211,000 mortgage. If it is a standard mortgage repaid fortnightly over 25 years at 9.5%, you will end up paying $435,810.25 for your house. That’s the same again in interest payments!

There is a great deal that you can do to make the mortgage more efficient and so reduce that interest cost. You need to start up “Project Mortgage” – open a file and set out to save as much as you can of that cost.

The first thing that you should do is learn all about mortgages – how they work, the products that are available and the different interest rates from different providers. Go to the library or search the web (I know www.sorted.org.nz has plenty of information) and play with some online calculators to see the difference that even an apparently small interest rate reduction can make.

Concentrate on two things: first getting the lowest interest rate possible. You can do this by using fixed rate mortgages which have mostly been much cheaper than the variable rate ones. The bulk of your mortgage should be on a fixed rate. You may also have a revolving credit facility (you will need to be disciplined!) which Matt’s salary is paid into (along with any other money that you have – savings or work bonuses), and which you pay the bills out of. The idea of this is to keep total indebtedness as low as possible. Consider also switching to a lower cost provider although be sure that they offer the products and services that you need – e.g. a full range of fixed rates and revolving credit facilities.

Second, make sure that you are putting as much into the mortgage as you possibly can. Lenders calculate interest daily and every day that you have their money, you pay.

While you are up-skilling yourself on mortgages you should also see some professional advisers:

1. Financial planners can help. Go and see a selection on a no obligation basis and see if you can spend an hour or two with one to help with the mortgage. It might cost you a few hundred dollars – but the savings will be far greater than this.

2. Mortgages brokers can help. They will want you to switch to a different lender, but if they can show you how that will save you money the hassle will be worth it.

3. Your bank might be able to help – especially if it knows you are considering switching.

Steph, you and Matt have a lot going for you with all that income. Get some proper advice – it does not have to cost much; it may not cost anything at all. And anyway as an old friend of mine once said: if you think that dealing with a professional is expensive, you wait till you deal with an amateur.

Regards, Martin


At this stage I'm not ready to commit the $$$ to going to a planner, we might, but some people have given us really detailed comments below, so we're going to run with those and see where it takes us.

Thx TM MB!

PS. Working on our budget now, there's a lot to go through but its well worth it. Link soon!

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At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 5:38:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

martin hawes (who would charge $5000) for advice states that steph should see a financial planner for a no obligation quote, once they found she had no money they would not be interested, therefore this is nonsense, she needs free budget advice, and any advice from a min wage employee should be taken with a grain of salt

 

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Week 1, Question 1

Parental leave's gone. :-(

We're down to one income. (Matt's getting $68,000 which is not to be sneezed at, but it's a lot less than we're used to!) Anyway, my brain feels like bursting when I look at our bank statement so I reckon we need some help.

Matt thinks we need to see a financial planner, but my brother Dave is a bit of a whiz with money so I wonder if I should talk to him. He's making a killing on the stock market, or so he reckons. What should I do?

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At Friday, March 31, 2006 12:16:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

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At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:04:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi, I would ignore the get rid of steph brigade. I am sure that a lot of people will be watching to see what real advice is givin. I have given my vote for this week but I think the options should have been go to a budget advisor not a finacial advisor.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:18:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Definitely I would see a financial planner. While your brother may be making a "killing", at a time like this you would be better off keeping your money secure. If something went bad then thats your money gone down the tubes. "Dabbling" in the sharemarket is fine but not at a time when your worried about your finances.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:36:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

invest in a copy of http://secure.richdad.com/Category.asp?Cat=Games

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:40:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

stocks wont get you passive income, your goal should be to figure out ways of generating passive income, that way even if you are not working you still have money comming in.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 1:55:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

what a dumb question!!! there are FREE budget and advisory services available. why would they pay for a financial planner or let their unqualified brother loose on their finances when they can go to free advice services or hey here's a bright idea. they could read sorted. wow who'd have thought it.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 2:57:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

The financial planners I have visited have been free of cost. I would prefer to have a professional show me how to generate wealth than some old duck at the CAB show me how to budget. I don't think the rich use budget advisory. I guess it depends what your focus is, save money, or generate wealth?

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 3:10:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

You said you are used to more money so go and earn some extra money, take in children at home, find another parent like yourself who would like to job share. There are many working mums out there, you dont have to sit at home until the situation gets out of control. Didnt you take a years leave with pay when you have the baby.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 3:44:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you cant live on $68000 then you do need help, whe you have to live on $22000 then you have something to moan about.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 4:30:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Free of cost financial planners? Where do you get those? Ours takes a percentage of our money

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 11:11:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

agree, financial planners may do an initial free consult but that won't solve anything. besides financial planners work with increasing assets, in this case the problem is debt repayment. different thing. anyway yawn all fictional boring boring

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 10:18:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is the problem really debt repayment? Or is the problem that they don't know how to make their money work for them? I still think going to see a financial planner would be best. My first step of course would be how to minimise debt. A financial planner can help you do that in regards to mortgages and insurance. Then they can give you advice on a life time plan to generate wealth (or get your money working for you). From my understanding, yes they will do an initial free consultation, then they will put together a package for you which will cost a few hundred and then basically anything they sign you up for after that they get a commission from the Company. Remember it is still your choice who you sign on with, you are only being advised. I still think it would be money well spent. As many have alluded to they are not at the point of destitution. They need some guidance in mapping out their finances. I don't think this is a case for budget advisory. But thats just my opinion.

 

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Monday, April 03, 2006

Thanks for your comments!

Hi Everyone

Thanks for all the comments over the weekend, sorry I couldn't respond to them all faster. Rather than try answer each one, I hope this post will cover some of the important stuff for now.

There's a lot to think about, we're going to try and do what is suggested in the comments and work out a complete budget. Probably most of what we're worried about is not having a good grip on the money, and we've seen people earning more than us get into situations where, like one of the comments says, the mortgage/house owns them not the other way around!

A lot of the comments have been that what Matt earns ($68k) is pretty good and we shouldn’t have any worries. Well, we know that should be enough, which is sort of why we’re doing this. We want to have our finances sorted, and make the most of where we’re at.

We’re not asking for any hand-outs, and we’re not looking for people to feel sorry for us. That’s not the point - this blog is called “Sort Me” not “Poor Me”!

Keep an eye out for my Budget, and this week I’ll ask you to vote on a couple of big decisions we need to make to kick this process off!

Thx, Steph.

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At Monday, April 03, 2006 3:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is an absolute waste of tax payers money. Ficticous steph and her rich husband who cant seem to sort their own lives out. What a joke. I hope blogspot bans this blog

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 4:11:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Steph, if you're not buying or selling something, then get off trademe. go away.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 4:42:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why don't you return to work to earn extra income?

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 5:26:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi steph, don't let all these losers bother you with their negative comments. you're saving some other poor sod on the message board from their abuse anyway! i think that we're ready for financial decision number one now - you may notice that the general abuse settles down when you give them something to think about. i hope it's a real dilemna though - and not just whether "mozart for babies" is a necessity or an extra.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 5:40:00 PM, Blogger Carla said...

This blog could be fantastic if people see it for what it is, get past the fact that its an orange ad, easily blocked if you dont want to see it. i look foward to the ideas that will be shown, they will most certainly help a lot of people reading this.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 5:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If your husband got fired a lot of us would be more willing to help. At your income level you should be able to budget for youself, why are you asking us for help?

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 7:43:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

like many of us, we have to live within our means, I too dont like seeing it all down the page, I too have large family but hypothetically or not get rid of it.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 8:03:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

why not take a handout, if the government gives it take it. I started out 17 years ago with a 65,000 mortgage, and and income of around $65,000 - $70,000 it was enought to live well and cover the mortgage, insurance, rates, power and phone, hate to have that income today and a $211,000 mortgage, your life is owned by your mortgage, you have no option, stick the kid in care and go back to work, I can say I was at home for my kids a luxuary you will not get, so take the hand outs, make a living of TM whilst staying at home, work whilst your husbands home and at the end of 15 years your marriage is either in tatters, your kid is in a one parent family, or very strained because men cant handle the stress of it all best of luck. NZ is a very expensive place to live get use to it, we pay for the luxuary of it expensive housing and low wages

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 8:22:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

LOL, Cheers for changing the colour, it really was a pain.

I cant understand HOW or WHY your having difficulties, My husband gets $34,000 we have 2 kids and we manage, maybe you're just used to extravagant spending? $64,000 is a shitload of money, I think the problem is the fact you're so used to 2 wages, it takes a long time to adjust to just one. Good luck I guess...oh and it does feel silly talking to someone who doesn't exsist.

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 9:51:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I must say well done with the changing of the orange ad and all.
This is an interesting idea, but as others have said it doesn't really relate to 'normal' NZers, so I'm not sure what the point of this is...
Do you not want us to learn from this, so we have to pay Sorted for relevant advice or something?

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 10:51:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Steph

Congratulations of your newish baby!

Yep, it is tough going from 2 incomes down to 1. What is the term of your morgage? If you are trying to pay it off fast then one thing that you need to do is to reduce your monthly repayments. There is just no way that you are going to be able to pay off that morgage in 8 years on one income with a young baby! Extend it out to 20 years or so - you can increase the monthly repayments in a few months/years when your combined income increases. Make sure that your bank doesn't try to charge you a redocumentation fee - they are getting enough out of you already in interest.

Oh, and don't forget to apply for your "Working for families" money, or whatever it is called (phone IRD). That should be about $50 per week, which will help a lot!

 
At Monday, April 03, 2006 11:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

well I did a rough budget of what I think their expenses would be and although there are people saying that $68k is a lot of money in Auckland it doesnt go as far as it would in smaller cities

but lets wait to hear more

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 1:19:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Do you get paid for doing this Ad? If not go stick Sorted and go find a real job.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 6:28:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am utterly unimpressed with the two choices given for this weeks vote. 'The two options are clearly not equal - who on earth would seriously vote for the choice of the brother who "dabbles in shares".

It seems the intention is to steer people to financial planners. That was my first step several years ago. Fortunately I took none of their self-serving advice.

The choices are a joke, and unworthy of serious consideration. And this is my last post on this blog.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 8:34:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I do find it very difficult to understand why you need budget advice when your husband earns $68k (and yes I realise your "fictitious!"). I lived in Auckland with my partner & my son just on his wages ($36k) and we managed more than fine. Before baby we were earning $66k so it was a huge reduction in pay. The only thing I had was a CS card to help out with doctor's bills.
While we survived we weren't making progress so we moved to Waikato where my partner is now earning $41k and I can say honestly that we have a very rich living and STILL I don't work. I'm also expecting baby #2 so I find it very very hard to understand how you need budgeting advice.

If after this is all done you were to do another experiment such as this then maybe make it more realistic as far as wages are concerned.

As far as your situation is concerned, it is very hard to comment when there is no data available to see where all your money is going. For instance cars, insurance, monthly bills, mortgage payments, entertainment etc etc etc. It is very possible to live well & still stay at home and give your child a good start in life. My own life proves that.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 8:43:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

why on earth would you want others to sort out YOUR MONEY problems? waste of time and space. go back to work like all other ppl.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 8:46:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sigh. Get a part time job & put ficticious Caleb in daycare.

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 9:35:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ignore comments such as you need to go out to work and staying at home with your child is a luxury. The luxury in this situation is a house or mortgage that you can not really afford (unless you do go out to work) and all the unecessary extras you spend (it does add up)... $60,000+ is a decent income. If you are struggling it is because you aren't living within your means - simple as that. Budgeting will show you where you can save and where you need to make changes. You do not simply have to go out to work and put your child in childcare because you're not living within your means. LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS is the solution!

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 9:44:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ignore comments such as go back to work and staying at home with your child is a luxury. The luxury in this situation is your house/mortgage and all the little unecessary extras that you will discover upon examining your spending and setting up a budget. Go to work seems like the simple solution - but if you want to be a SAHM then you have every right to be and shouldn't feel pressured to work. What people ignore is that first of all when you are having financial problems it is because YOU ARE NOT LIVING WITHIN YOUR MEANS! THE SOLUTION IS TO LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS - not put your child/ren in childcare and go out to work to you can fund a more lavish lifestyle than you can afford. Many women out there are SAHM's earning less that you with more children and they make it work. So this should give you hope! In saying this - part-time work may also be an option - but at least you won't have your child in full-time daycare...

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 2:48:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

ALL OF YOU PEOPLE WHO ARE STRUGGLING WITH THE FACT THEY HAVE $68K PER ANNUM WHEN YOU ONLY LIVE OFF HALF OF THAT - WOULD YOU BLARDY WELL GO BACK AND READ THE POSTS ABOUT DISPOSABLE INCOME!!!

Big DURRR!!!!!

Talk about ignorant!!! *grumble grumble*

 
At Tuesday, April 04, 2006 2:53:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would go with the financial planners advice. It is only advice, it is up to you whether you take it or not.

 
At Wednesday, April 05, 2006 5:32:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

What you have to realise is that there is no such thing as UNBIASED financial advice. They all have something to sell you. Find out what ruch people do and do the same - it has been proven to work for them.

 

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